THE BLACK ALBUM
It was always going to be Paint It Black. There was never really a question, though there was a strange collision – collusion? – of the elements.
There was my mood.
There was my colour of choice.
There was the colour of the sky.
There was the summer.
There was my favourite music.
There was my mood.
There was a colour my bank manager had never seen.
Then there was the name of the first CD I’d bought for a good while – Black Sheep. I’ve always been a fan of Cope, from his early gorgeous pop to latterly his mad infatuations with stone circles – I went to Callanish last year, one of the maddest weekends – to his love of Krautrock – which ever since I heard Tago Mago in maybe 74 I’ve always loved – to his determination to do things his own way – which I’ve always aspired to though mostly lacked the balls to follow through with. He’s become interested in William Blake recently and the new CD is enriched by a Blake-ism: “Create your own system of become enslaved by another Man’s”.
Seems reasonable to me. (That’s actually also a Fall lyric, from Before The Moon Falls, Dragnet, 1979).
I always keep an eye on his Head Heritage website and when I read that he had a new album…
So I bought it. Of course, it’s largely bollocks – a double CD, natch - but that’s what happens when you release stuff yourself on your own label and there’s no one around, except maybe your kids, who’s gonna say “Actually, that’s bollocks”. But there are a few good things, especially the title All the blowing-themselves-up motherfuckers (will realise the minute they die that they were suckers)
So…
The Black Sheep's Song - Julian Cope
The Black Sheep’s Song is a lovely idea. “To rally every black sheep is my goal” it says on the album sleeve – and there are a fair few black sheep on this CD.
Am I Black Enough for You - Schoolly D
A proper bad man. Top tune though. I remember the NME tried to champion him in the early days – till they realised he was proper bad. Play this loud and it resonates big time.
Reverend Black Grape - Black Grape
Black Grape always get lost in the pipe smoke of the Mondays, but they made some great tunes. Back in the day I tried to commission Sean Ryder to write a piece called It’s Great When You’re Straight for The Observer. Don’t bother trying to find it on the web.
Black Heart - Keith Hudson
There’s a story about Keith Hudson. When Richard Branson was launching his Front Line series – what was that? 1976? – he went over to Jamaica to hang out with all these dudes that he’d signed up from the comfort of those Tubular Bells royalties. So Branson was playing the black man, giving it a load of I’n’I nonsense and they all played along with him cos he was paying them. Then he met Keith Hudson who’d had a huge success with a tune called Civilisation. Except Hudson was a proper job gangster who took one look at Branson, pulled a gun and gave him a count to get out.
These days Branson sponsors Andy Murray and Hudson is dead.
Good tune though, from a top album called Pick A Dub.
Black Erotica - Ursula Rucker
Mmmm. This one’s interesting. She’s an odd one, is our Ursula. Obsessed you might say. The only recording artist who washes their hands before and after.
Black Dog - Led Zeppelin
What else could follow that?
Black Monk Theme - The Fall
You probably haven’t heard of The Fall, but you’re gonna have to trust me on this one. This is a cover of a song called “I Hate You” by The Monks, a Nuggets-era bunch of tripped out psycho hippies. But it’s got the best lyrics ever and is the perfect riposte to Ursula Rucker.
You can look them up, but it’s funner (an old Ellie word) to listen and smile as you catch Smith bark
“Seep seep seep to sleep,
The drill scaffold starts
Power drill dog bark renovate stone blast
I'm coming
Because you make me hate you baby”
Black Coffee In Bed - Squeeze
Possibly the finest pop song ever written called Black Coffee In Bed. Actually you might argue those last five words are superfluous. Impossibly well crafted, it’s the form at it’s finest.
Black Tie White Noise (3rd Floor US Radio Mix) - David Bowie
Bowie’s most under-rated album. Every Bowie album past Scary Monsters has been
A) hailed as a return to form by pop hacks who know that if they don’t write that they won’t have an earthly of an interview and they’re all desperate for an interview because they, like the rest of the world, are huge Bowie fans and would sell their granny for a chance to break bread with the man.
B) Utter bollocks.
There have been the odd single and the odd flourish, but mainly it’s been a disappointment. I think it’s cos he started eating, but that’s another story.
Black Tie White Noise is the nearest he’s come.
Black Crow - Joni Mitchell
Something for Chris. A lovely tune from Hejira, Joni’s Golden Period.
Black Corridor – Hawkwind
More words of wisdom from Robert Calvert. It’s odd that the longer he goes on, the more he sounds like a Dalek.
Black Snake Moan - Blind Lemon Jefferson
Seemed reasonable to have some blues on a Stones-inspired CD.
Blacks/Radio - The Psychedelic Furs
Something for Tim. Actually I probably scagged this from one of Tim’s CD. Back in the pre first album time, they were actually quite good. When they were happy to be primitive. The voice is still grief.
Blacka Shade Of Dub - Scientist
Black Man Time - I Roy
Black Harmony Killer - Jah Stitch
Black Diamonds - Roland Kirk
A while back Johnski and I had a bit of an e-flurry about Rip, Rig & Panic, a bunch of honking, squonking post Pop Group ne’er do wells. They took their name from a Roland Kirk album and – guess what – this track comes from that album.
All the blowing-themselves-up motherfuckers (will realise the minute they die that they were suckers) - Julian Cope
He’s probably got a point, you gotta admit.
Paint it Black - Metallica
I found a few mad versions of the tune – Rammstein were good, as was an unnamed German techno version, U2 was straight bollocks – but this I liked. Cos it’s so horrible.
Poppy
Tuesday, 9 September 2008
Sunday, 7 September 2008
My summer
This is how my summer has been
A few weeks ago, I decided to sell my car. I liked the car, I liked enough that – and I only thought about this later – when Ellie once idly asked me what was the best car I ever had, I thought a bit and said “This one”. Still, a few weeks ago I decided to sell the car. It was a big 2.6 litre beast, lovely to drive but very expensive to run. In the time I had it, just over a year, the cost of filling it up had gone up over £25. The eco jihad? No, it just cost a lot.
I bought the car for £2,200 so I decided to sell it for the same. If it didn’t go… well, at least I tried.
On August 20 – an auspicious date as you’ll find out – I received an e-mail from Ebay saying that the car had sold. For £2,200. I sent the buyer a mail. A nice bloke called Chris who, curiously, worked for an internet TV station for chartered accountants. He was from New Zealand. That was a Wednesday. We arranged for him to come to Lewes station on Friday – they were doing a special on tax evasion on Thursday – and all was good.
On Thursday I got in the car, pressed the button that operated the driver’s window. Nothing. Tried again. Nothing. It was broke. I took the car to the garage.
“Ah yes, you see it’s the motor. The whole thing will have to be replaced.”
“Blimey. Are you sure?”
“And of course the exhaust system.”
“Of course.”
£300. Plus VAT. It couldn’t have broken down a day later? It had worked perfectly all the time I had the car and that Thursday it broke.
That was how my summer has been.
This is how my summer has been
College finished. I got it done. Out of the way. I talked with Gill about the work I had to do over the summer. The projects. The ideas. The summer was full of potential, full of possibilities.
We had some friends round for Sunday lunch. It was, strangely for this summer, a lovely day. We were sitting on our deck with Fred and Sue – I’ll tell you about them later – and, as usual they were having a conversation at us when, kinda innocently, a wasp started bussing around my head.
Not even thinking about it, I waved it away, just like I’ve done a thousand times before. This time though was different. This time, as I waved, the wasp waved. We waved at each other. With each other. And, like old school rappers, we gave each other a high five. Well, I gave the wasp a high five. The wasp gave me a sting. On my hand. My right hand. The right hand which is the only hand I type with.
That wasn’t the bad thing. The bad thing was this. I had an allergic reaction to the sting. My hand blew up in an almost Elephant Man style. People looked at my hand like it was some Victorian curio. My rings got stuck. Not only did it hurt – and it did - I couldn’t move my hand or my fingers. For two weeks.
I’d never been stung before.
This is how my summer has been
Gill and I have been married, give or take, 13 years and five months. To someone who’s been married, say, 20 years that might not be much, but to someone who’s been married maybe just two years, it’s a lifetime.
People say to us “How do you keep yoiur marriage alive?” and we tell them of our devices. We even appeared in The Very Fine Daily Mail – a double page feature complete with photo shoot – talking about how we keep our marriage alive, how we keep the romance in our world.
Not long after we first got together, before we were married and before we even spoke of children, I packed a couple of bags, put Gill and Maxwell in the car, blindfolded the two of them – he was a terrible sneak – and took them off for a mystery weekend in The Isle Of Wight.
Since then, we’ve taken each other all over the world on mystery trips, the game being to see how far you can get the other person before they find out where they’re going. (Headphones and blindfolds are useful but you can’t stop idiot passengers reading The Time Out Guide Book To Rome or some idiot hostess declaring “Welcome to Nice”.)
Anyway, it’s been a bit of a summer and that’s brought on its own stresses so it was only a question of time before one of us declared “We’re going away next weekend, I’m not telling you where”. Gill arranged it. I was probably talking to mortgage advisors or legal solicitors or banks or bail bond bounty hunters.
We packed up the car – two adults, three children, three dogs, all our clothes and dog baskets, tenths, sleeping bags, duvets, pillows… With Gill you never know. I guessed we weren’t going to Prague but all the baggage really might have been a distraction.
Now then. My sister moved to Bournemouth in 1979, my mother moved in 1984 and I’ve been going down there every few weeks/ months since then. I’ve always been intrigued by a sign just by the New Forest which says “No Right Turn Till Rufus Stone”. What or who is Rufus Stone? What happens there? What might happen if you turned right before Rufus Stone? There are more questions than answers.
Anyway, so we’re driving along on the way to our mystery location, heading towards Bournemouth. Through the New Forest. Towards the sign. I’m driving. Gill’s saying “Left” or “Right”.
Gill says “Turn right at Rufus Stone”.
The weekend could only be fantastic. It could only be a treat. What happened was t his.
We pitched up at a camp site. Great. I’ve never been camping in a camp site.
Thye camp site is called Sandy Balls. Great. How many cheap gags to make the kids laugh can you get out of Sandy Balls?
It’s full of kids and dogs. Perfect.
What happened was this.
We made camp at around 5pm. We had a walk. I got hit by my mystery stomach condition. I was taken to Salisbury Hospital. I stayed there until Sunday afternoon when, car packed, Gill, the kids and the dogs came to pick me up and take me home.
On the way home, the girls said to me “Mummy was drinking wine outside the tent by herself”.
I’ve got to go to hospital on Sept 19th to have a cameradownthethroatoscopy.
“Is it going to hurt?” I said, like a true 50-year-old man.
“No, we’ll give you something that’ll send you away with the fairies.”
Grab that silver lining, I thought. Normally it costs me about £50 to go play with those guys.
This is how my summer has been
The mortgage went up £500 a month.
We decided we couldn't stay in the house.
We swung a deal.
We stayed in the house.
The deal went flat.
We couldn’t stay in the house.
That’s as much as I’m going to say about that.
But this is the thing. Then I sorted us out a deal to stay in the house. It’s not cheap, but we can manage it.
We’re staying in the house.
There have been a lot of ups and downs. Conversations around the table. Trips to London. E-mails with people who were probably wearing suits, the type you wear with your shirt tucked in and your stomach hanging out.
It's been difficult but we're staying in the house.
This is how my summer has been
My mother died.
That’s as much as I’m going to say about that one.
She’d been ill for a long time and many times I wished – for all our sakes – that she slip away.
She used to say to me “I wish I was on the top of a big slide and I could just slide…”
She’d started to call me Liam. Quite why this woman – born in Whitechapel of Polish immigrant stock and Jewish through and through should conjure up the name Liam… Who can say. I asked her once. She looked at me like I was an idiot. That’s when I thought she was going to live forever.
But she died. And you know what? It hurts more than the wasp sting and is more disorientating than the house business.
My mother died. On August 18.
On August 20 - Ellie's birthday, a day she'd been looking for f'ages - my mother had her funeral.
August 20. Ellie's birthday. Gill's parents' wedding anniversary. My mother's funeral. All of life.
This is how my summer has been
As I was driving from Laughton to Bournemouth after being told about my mother, I realised the curious ramification of her passing.
We wouldn’t be able to stay in the house. The detail is too sordid to go into here, but that’s the story.
We’re not staying in the house.
This is how my summer has been
I was going to turn 50 this summer. I knew it was coming – it’s not like you don’t get notification – so I decided to embrace it. I’d do what I do. I’d have a party. I was going to have a big party. I was going to be 50 – it wasn’t going to be me, you know what I mean?
We were going to have a theme party – 1973. It was my 50th, Ellie’s 13th and LouLou’s 10th. 73. (Quite how LouLou has got to 10… that’s another story).
People were coming from far and wide. They were going to camp. It would be a mini festival – just like our wedding renewal party – minus the guitar stomping.
We weren’t going to have a summer holiday – our money was going on the house, remember – and the weather had been appalling and our attempts at mystery romantic weekends had ended up in hospital, but we were going to have a big party.
The week before The Big Party… my mother died. I cancelled the party. It’s not that it didn’t seem right, it’s just that I couldn’t do it. I’d bought a massive version of the game Twister but I couldn’t do it.
Maybe we’ll do it later.
A few weeks ago, I decided to sell my car. I liked the car, I liked enough that – and I only thought about this later – when Ellie once idly asked me what was the best car I ever had, I thought a bit and said “This one”. Still, a few weeks ago I decided to sell the car. It was a big 2.6 litre beast, lovely to drive but very expensive to run. In the time I had it, just over a year, the cost of filling it up had gone up over £25. The eco jihad? No, it just cost a lot.
I bought the car for £2,200 so I decided to sell it for the same. If it didn’t go… well, at least I tried.
On August 20 – an auspicious date as you’ll find out – I received an e-mail from Ebay saying that the car had sold. For £2,200. I sent the buyer a mail. A nice bloke called Chris who, curiously, worked for an internet TV station for chartered accountants. He was from New Zealand. That was a Wednesday. We arranged for him to come to Lewes station on Friday – they were doing a special on tax evasion on Thursday – and all was good.
On Thursday I got in the car, pressed the button that operated the driver’s window. Nothing. Tried again. Nothing. It was broke. I took the car to the garage.
“Ah yes, you see it’s the motor. The whole thing will have to be replaced.”
“Blimey. Are you sure?”
“And of course the exhaust system.”
“Of course.”
£300. Plus VAT. It couldn’t have broken down a day later? It had worked perfectly all the time I had the car and that Thursday it broke.
That was how my summer has been.
This is how my summer has been
College finished. I got it done. Out of the way. I talked with Gill about the work I had to do over the summer. The projects. The ideas. The summer was full of potential, full of possibilities.
We had some friends round for Sunday lunch. It was, strangely for this summer, a lovely day. We were sitting on our deck with Fred and Sue – I’ll tell you about them later – and, as usual they were having a conversation at us when, kinda innocently, a wasp started bussing around my head.
Not even thinking about it, I waved it away, just like I’ve done a thousand times before. This time though was different. This time, as I waved, the wasp waved. We waved at each other. With each other. And, like old school rappers, we gave each other a high five. Well, I gave the wasp a high five. The wasp gave me a sting. On my hand. My right hand. The right hand which is the only hand I type with.
That wasn’t the bad thing. The bad thing was this. I had an allergic reaction to the sting. My hand blew up in an almost Elephant Man style. People looked at my hand like it was some Victorian curio. My rings got stuck. Not only did it hurt – and it did - I couldn’t move my hand or my fingers. For two weeks.
I’d never been stung before.
This is how my summer has been
Gill and I have been married, give or take, 13 years and five months. To someone who’s been married, say, 20 years that might not be much, but to someone who’s been married maybe just two years, it’s a lifetime.
People say to us “How do you keep yoiur marriage alive?” and we tell them of our devices. We even appeared in The Very Fine Daily Mail – a double page feature complete with photo shoot – talking about how we keep our marriage alive, how we keep the romance in our world.
Not long after we first got together, before we were married and before we even spoke of children, I packed a couple of bags, put Gill and Maxwell in the car, blindfolded the two of them – he was a terrible sneak – and took them off for a mystery weekend in The Isle Of Wight.
Since then, we’ve taken each other all over the world on mystery trips, the game being to see how far you can get the other person before they find out where they’re going. (Headphones and blindfolds are useful but you can’t stop idiot passengers reading The Time Out Guide Book To Rome or some idiot hostess declaring “Welcome to Nice”.)
Anyway, it’s been a bit of a summer and that’s brought on its own stresses so it was only a question of time before one of us declared “We’re going away next weekend, I’m not telling you where”. Gill arranged it. I was probably talking to mortgage advisors or legal solicitors or banks or bail bond bounty hunters.
We packed up the car – two adults, three children, three dogs, all our clothes and dog baskets, tenths, sleeping bags, duvets, pillows… With Gill you never know. I guessed we weren’t going to Prague but all the baggage really might have been a distraction.
Now then. My sister moved to Bournemouth in 1979, my mother moved in 1984 and I’ve been going down there every few weeks/ months since then. I’ve always been intrigued by a sign just by the New Forest which says “No Right Turn Till Rufus Stone”. What or who is Rufus Stone? What happens there? What might happen if you turned right before Rufus Stone? There are more questions than answers.
Anyway, so we’re driving along on the way to our mystery location, heading towards Bournemouth. Through the New Forest. Towards the sign. I’m driving. Gill’s saying “Left” or “Right”.
Gill says “Turn right at Rufus Stone”.
The weekend could only be fantastic. It could only be a treat. What happened was t his.
We pitched up at a camp site. Great. I’ve never been camping in a camp site.
Thye camp site is called Sandy Balls. Great. How many cheap gags to make the kids laugh can you get out of Sandy Balls?
It’s full of kids and dogs. Perfect.
What happened was this.
We made camp at around 5pm. We had a walk. I got hit by my mystery stomach condition. I was taken to Salisbury Hospital. I stayed there until Sunday afternoon when, car packed, Gill, the kids and the dogs came to pick me up and take me home.
On the way home, the girls said to me “Mummy was drinking wine outside the tent by herself”.
I’ve got to go to hospital on Sept 19th to have a cameradownthethroatoscopy.
“Is it going to hurt?” I said, like a true 50-year-old man.
“No, we’ll give you something that’ll send you away with the fairies.”
Grab that silver lining, I thought. Normally it costs me about £50 to go play with those guys.
This is how my summer has been
The mortgage went up £500 a month.
We decided we couldn't stay in the house.
We swung a deal.
We stayed in the house.
The deal went flat.
We couldn’t stay in the house.
That’s as much as I’m going to say about that.
But this is the thing. Then I sorted us out a deal to stay in the house. It’s not cheap, but we can manage it.
We’re staying in the house.
There have been a lot of ups and downs. Conversations around the table. Trips to London. E-mails with people who were probably wearing suits, the type you wear with your shirt tucked in and your stomach hanging out.
It's been difficult but we're staying in the house.
This is how my summer has been
My mother died.
That’s as much as I’m going to say about that one.
She’d been ill for a long time and many times I wished – for all our sakes – that she slip away.
She used to say to me “I wish I was on the top of a big slide and I could just slide…”
She’d started to call me Liam. Quite why this woman – born in Whitechapel of Polish immigrant stock and Jewish through and through should conjure up the name Liam… Who can say. I asked her once. She looked at me like I was an idiot. That’s when I thought she was going to live forever.
But she died. And you know what? It hurts more than the wasp sting and is more disorientating than the house business.
My mother died. On August 18.
On August 20 - Ellie's birthday, a day she'd been looking for f'ages - my mother had her funeral.
August 20. Ellie's birthday. Gill's parents' wedding anniversary. My mother's funeral. All of life.
This is how my summer has been
As I was driving from Laughton to Bournemouth after being told about my mother, I realised the curious ramification of her passing.
We wouldn’t be able to stay in the house. The detail is too sordid to go into here, but that’s the story.
We’re not staying in the house.
This is how my summer has been
I was going to turn 50 this summer. I knew it was coming – it’s not like you don’t get notification – so I decided to embrace it. I’d do what I do. I’d have a party. I was going to have a big party. I was going to be 50 – it wasn’t going to be me, you know what I mean?
We were going to have a theme party – 1973. It was my 50th, Ellie’s 13th and LouLou’s 10th. 73. (Quite how LouLou has got to 10… that’s another story).
People were coming from far and wide. They were going to camp. It would be a mini festival – just like our wedding renewal party – minus the guitar stomping.
We weren’t going to have a summer holiday – our money was going on the house, remember – and the weather had been appalling and our attempts at mystery romantic weekends had ended up in hospital, but we were going to have a big party.
The week before The Big Party… my mother died. I cancelled the party. It’s not that it didn’t seem right, it’s just that I couldn’t do it. I’d bought a massive version of the game Twister but I couldn’t do it.
Maybe we’ll do it later.
Thursday, 14 August 2008
Cars and Pars
In some cultures, the kids go off into the forest with their elders, maybe kill a deer and come back a man. Me and my old man went to Truppy’s garage round the back of Stamford Hill and came back with a dark green Morris 1100. In terms of blood sweat and tears, it’s a toss up between the two.
As a car, the Morris made a shopping trolley look like a sophisticated piece of machinery. But it doesn’t matter. My mate Pomeranc got a car at the same time, a Ford Anglia that went round corners by itself. Going straight down the road was trickier, but it doesn’t matter.
We bought that together, me and my old man. It was dark green, the three door – well, two doors and a boot – and, how shall we say? I wasn’t going to get caught speeding in this thing. (Later, I sorted that out. I had a mate who knew a bit about cars and he got hold of a pair of Weber carbs. “No, it’ll be alright”. I was working at Mister Byrite, sorted him out. Fitted with its new go-faster carbs, RoboMorris went from nought to 30 like the wind. From 30 to 31 you could wait all week. Still.)
It was somewhere west of knackered. I didn’t care. You don’t, do you? Going to get my first car with my old man, it was like my proper barmitzvah. Becoming a man? This is what I’m talking about.
Anyway, we got this thing home and I parked outside the house. We got out of the car, closed the doors and – and this is where the film goes into show-motion – slowly but ever so surely the car started sliding backwards down the hill. Me and my old man made to try and stop it but couldn’t catch it. We needed something solid, something like… that lamp post. The next day we went to a breakers yard and got a new boot. OK, so it was white, but actually I kinda liked it. It was a story, our story.
OK, it was a short story. Two cars later and I got what I wanted. I’d gone through the Morris 1100 and the Triumph Herald and hadn’t quite got to the glory that was the inherited Triumph 2000 and had somehow managed to get hold of a red Mini 1275GT with a big fat sports exhaust. Proper.
Thanks to a job at the bookies – well, you can always go back and re-take your exams can’t you, but if you want a few bob RIGHT NOW you’ve got to do it RIGHT NOW, right? – I’d just had a Stage 3 cylinder head fitted to my Mini 1275. I remember… I came racing down the hill to our house and revved the car up outside the front door like, well, like a boy with a new toy. My old man laughed, which was cheap cos he laughed at everything.
Remember the time back when I was maybe 12 or 13 and I’d bought these fantastic platform boots, all metallic blue and silver stripes from Shelleys and matched them with a pair of high-waisted five-button Oxfords that covered the boots perfectly. I came downstairs and tried to sneak out of the house but, listen, it’s difficult to move like James Coburn when you’re wearing four inch metallic platform boots and trousers that do up around your tits. He looked at me and asked what must now sound a perfectly reasonable question: “What’s the point of wearing boots like that if you’re not going to let people see them?”
It’s like last year – and last year I’m over 40, right – and me and my wife are off to see Fatboy Slim play on Brighton Beach. Gill’s dad’s babysitting. He asks us where we’re going.
“Where are you going?”
So we tell him and, just like a proper dad, all he did was ask what must now sound a perfectly reasonable question: “So you’re going to watch him play other people’s records?”
My eldest is nine now. If I even open my mouth, it’s “Whatever…” and a quick Naomi Campbell out of the room.
I learned everything from that laugh. It was the same laugh I heard whenever the relatives came round in their shiny new Mercedes. There was something undeniably funny about these post-war Jewish immigrants swanning around in shiny new Mercedes – Yiddles claiming it back – but my old man just laughed.
“What do I need a new car for?” he’d say, pointing out at the E-reg Triumph 2000 and I was with him on that one. The Triumph was a dream of a car. Built like a tank, leather everywhere and walnut where there wasn’t leather.
It was solid, that car. The sort of car that, you knew if you had a crash the other car would look like a concertina and this? Barely a scratch on the bumper. Solid and honest. Could have been custom built for the old man.
It’s a curious thing. When I think back to my old man and the time we spent together, almost inevitably wheels play a part. They had to really: I was a boy and he was a driver. That’s what he did for a living, drove. Actually he was a cooper, a barrel-maker, but by the time I was there the bottom had fallen out of the wooden barrel market.
During the holidays I’d go down to the yard – Novick’s Cooperage in Rhodeswell Road, Bow, and smell the air, rich with damp sawdust. There’s still nothing quite like the smell of damp sawdust. The big lorry would be in the yard, ready to load with barrels, ready to take somewhere. There were stories, really good stories, but I never really got to grips with it all. I knew a bit of post-War stuff with gangsters went on – there were shortages, things need to get moved around and who knew what was inside a barrel?
But now it was all kosher. Mostly kosher. I remember one evening going off with him – and going off in the evening was an odd one in itself – down to the yard. The lorry was full, loaded to the gills, and we drove it down through the night, down to the car park opposite Twickenham rugby ground. This was off-the-scale odd. There was another lorry in the car park and we took the barrels off our lorry and loaded them on this other lorry. Tied it all up, did the tarpaulin thing, got back in our lorry and drove home.
I’m sure it was a cracking story and maybe if I was a different bloke I’d add some colour involving shadowy blokes and brown paper bags, but the truth is I was just a young kid, thrilled to be out with my old man, and excited because somewhere inside I knew this was bad stuff. And thrilled that he’d taken me with him to do this bad thing.
Mostly though I’d go off with him and it would be routine delivery stuff. We’d load the lorry up and take some barrels to another yard, or maybe go to another yard, pick some barrels up and bring them home. Routine. Routines and small memories that bring a smile to the heart. Breaking down in the McVitie’s factory off the Hendon Way and spending the night smelling this biscuit smell…
The car and the lorry seemed to be the place where me and my old man met. The house was my mother’s territory, the car his. I can feel it the same now with my kids. I have my best chats with them when we’re alone in the car. And you’d have to be very unkind to point out that they’re captive, belted in and door locks controlled by me.
The warm memories are all tied up in that lorry, like the barrels in the tarpaulin. Warm memories and one really crap memory. It’s funny how crap things stick in your head, things that make you cringe. We were driving down to Bournemouth to visit my sister’s prospective in-laws. It was late, Friday night after work, and my old man was, I thought, driving too slowly. So, like a stupid young know-the-price of-everything-but-the-value-of-nothing twat, I started taking the piss. Telling him that he was too old, that I could do better. What a twat. He didn’t say anything, let alone laugh the laugh. He just pulled over, got out and let me drive the rest of the way. I got us there, and yes faster than him, but still. What a twat.
The last thing he did involved a car. I’ve never thought about this before and maybe there’s a connection. The old Triumph 2000 finally bit the dust. After all the years of laughing at the aspirational relatives with their Mercs and their Saabs he finally decided to replace the old girl.
I’d smashed it up going down Camden Road too fast. It had a kickdown like a mule and I had some mates in the car and… you know. I slammed the brakes on and just about stopped her but she slid into the car in front. Killed it I think. The old Triumph had barely a scratch on the bumper. I was terrified of going home. It wasn’t that I thought he’d kill me, it was worse than that. It was… the disappointment. Sorry dad. I will sort it out one day. I don’t know why but he decided to give the Triumph to me. Maybe he thought it would make a man of me.
I’ve no idea why, it’s not a question I ever had time to ask, but he bought a shit-for-brains Fiat. Idiot tin bullshit car. Idiot tin light blue bastard bullshit car. He died before it ever arrived. It sat in the garage, unused and unloved. Every so often my mother would look at it and cry. One day when she was out I sold it. No one ever asked.
As a car, the Morris made a shopping trolley look like a sophisticated piece of machinery. But it doesn’t matter. My mate Pomeranc got a car at the same time, a Ford Anglia that went round corners by itself. Going straight down the road was trickier, but it doesn’t matter.
We bought that together, me and my old man. It was dark green, the three door – well, two doors and a boot – and, how shall we say? I wasn’t going to get caught speeding in this thing. (Later, I sorted that out. I had a mate who knew a bit about cars and he got hold of a pair of Weber carbs. “No, it’ll be alright”. I was working at Mister Byrite, sorted him out. Fitted with its new go-faster carbs, RoboMorris went from nought to 30 like the wind. From 30 to 31 you could wait all week. Still.)
It was somewhere west of knackered. I didn’t care. You don’t, do you? Going to get my first car with my old man, it was like my proper barmitzvah. Becoming a man? This is what I’m talking about.
Anyway, we got this thing home and I parked outside the house. We got out of the car, closed the doors and – and this is where the film goes into show-motion – slowly but ever so surely the car started sliding backwards down the hill. Me and my old man made to try and stop it but couldn’t catch it. We needed something solid, something like… that lamp post. The next day we went to a breakers yard and got a new boot. OK, so it was white, but actually I kinda liked it. It was a story, our story.
OK, it was a short story. Two cars later and I got what I wanted. I’d gone through the Morris 1100 and the Triumph Herald and hadn’t quite got to the glory that was the inherited Triumph 2000 and had somehow managed to get hold of a red Mini 1275GT with a big fat sports exhaust. Proper.
Thanks to a job at the bookies – well, you can always go back and re-take your exams can’t you, but if you want a few bob RIGHT NOW you’ve got to do it RIGHT NOW, right? – I’d just had a Stage 3 cylinder head fitted to my Mini 1275. I remember… I came racing down the hill to our house and revved the car up outside the front door like, well, like a boy with a new toy. My old man laughed, which was cheap cos he laughed at everything.
Remember the time back when I was maybe 12 or 13 and I’d bought these fantastic platform boots, all metallic blue and silver stripes from Shelleys and matched them with a pair of high-waisted five-button Oxfords that covered the boots perfectly. I came downstairs and tried to sneak out of the house but, listen, it’s difficult to move like James Coburn when you’re wearing four inch metallic platform boots and trousers that do up around your tits. He looked at me and asked what must now sound a perfectly reasonable question: “What’s the point of wearing boots like that if you’re not going to let people see them?”
It’s like last year – and last year I’m over 40, right – and me and my wife are off to see Fatboy Slim play on Brighton Beach. Gill’s dad’s babysitting. He asks us where we’re going.
“Where are you going?”
So we tell him and, just like a proper dad, all he did was ask what must now sound a perfectly reasonable question: “So you’re going to watch him play other people’s records?”
My eldest is nine now. If I even open my mouth, it’s “Whatever…” and a quick Naomi Campbell out of the room.
I learned everything from that laugh. It was the same laugh I heard whenever the relatives came round in their shiny new Mercedes. There was something undeniably funny about these post-war Jewish immigrants swanning around in shiny new Mercedes – Yiddles claiming it back – but my old man just laughed.
“What do I need a new car for?” he’d say, pointing out at the E-reg Triumph 2000 and I was with him on that one. The Triumph was a dream of a car. Built like a tank, leather everywhere and walnut where there wasn’t leather.
It was solid, that car. The sort of car that, you knew if you had a crash the other car would look like a concertina and this? Barely a scratch on the bumper. Solid and honest. Could have been custom built for the old man.
It’s a curious thing. When I think back to my old man and the time we spent together, almost inevitably wheels play a part. They had to really: I was a boy and he was a driver. That’s what he did for a living, drove. Actually he was a cooper, a barrel-maker, but by the time I was there the bottom had fallen out of the wooden barrel market.
During the holidays I’d go down to the yard – Novick’s Cooperage in Rhodeswell Road, Bow, and smell the air, rich with damp sawdust. There’s still nothing quite like the smell of damp sawdust. The big lorry would be in the yard, ready to load with barrels, ready to take somewhere. There were stories, really good stories, but I never really got to grips with it all. I knew a bit of post-War stuff with gangsters went on – there were shortages, things need to get moved around and who knew what was inside a barrel?
But now it was all kosher. Mostly kosher. I remember one evening going off with him – and going off in the evening was an odd one in itself – down to the yard. The lorry was full, loaded to the gills, and we drove it down through the night, down to the car park opposite Twickenham rugby ground. This was off-the-scale odd. There was another lorry in the car park and we took the barrels off our lorry and loaded them on this other lorry. Tied it all up, did the tarpaulin thing, got back in our lorry and drove home.
I’m sure it was a cracking story and maybe if I was a different bloke I’d add some colour involving shadowy blokes and brown paper bags, but the truth is I was just a young kid, thrilled to be out with my old man, and excited because somewhere inside I knew this was bad stuff. And thrilled that he’d taken me with him to do this bad thing.
Mostly though I’d go off with him and it would be routine delivery stuff. We’d load the lorry up and take some barrels to another yard, or maybe go to another yard, pick some barrels up and bring them home. Routine. Routines and small memories that bring a smile to the heart. Breaking down in the McVitie’s factory off the Hendon Way and spending the night smelling this biscuit smell…
The car and the lorry seemed to be the place where me and my old man met. The house was my mother’s territory, the car his. I can feel it the same now with my kids. I have my best chats with them when we’re alone in the car. And you’d have to be very unkind to point out that they’re captive, belted in and door locks controlled by me.
The warm memories are all tied up in that lorry, like the barrels in the tarpaulin. Warm memories and one really crap memory. It’s funny how crap things stick in your head, things that make you cringe. We were driving down to Bournemouth to visit my sister’s prospective in-laws. It was late, Friday night after work, and my old man was, I thought, driving too slowly. So, like a stupid young know-the-price of-everything-but-the-value-of-nothing twat, I started taking the piss. Telling him that he was too old, that I could do better. What a twat. He didn’t say anything, let alone laugh the laugh. He just pulled over, got out and let me drive the rest of the way. I got us there, and yes faster than him, but still. What a twat.
The last thing he did involved a car. I’ve never thought about this before and maybe there’s a connection. The old Triumph 2000 finally bit the dust. After all the years of laughing at the aspirational relatives with their Mercs and their Saabs he finally decided to replace the old girl.
I’d smashed it up going down Camden Road too fast. It had a kickdown like a mule and I had some mates in the car and… you know. I slammed the brakes on and just about stopped her but she slid into the car in front. Killed it I think. The old Triumph had barely a scratch on the bumper. I was terrified of going home. It wasn’t that I thought he’d kill me, it was worse than that. It was… the disappointment. Sorry dad. I will sort it out one day. I don’t know why but he decided to give the Triumph to me. Maybe he thought it would make a man of me.
I’ve no idea why, it’s not a question I ever had time to ask, but he bought a shit-for-brains Fiat. Idiot tin bullshit car. Idiot tin light blue bastard bullshit car. He died before it ever arrived. It sat in the garage, unused and unloved. Every so often my mother would look at it and cry. One day when she was out I sold it. No one ever asked.
In the name of the child
I'm writing the introduction to a new book, and looked back at the last one I wrote - and got kinda nostalgic. It was done pre-Blog so there's no record of it here. Or at least there wasn't...
Before you start reading this book or this introduction or anything, do this for a minute. Close your eyes. Imagine your children. Imagine them growing up. Imagine them getting a star at school for tidying their desk and them being thrilled about it. Imagine their friend having a birthday party and them coming home with a party bag. Imagine them losing a tooth, the bright red gappy smile and their excitement because they know that this means that the tooth fairy will come. Imagine them growing up. Now imagine all that happening somewhere else. And you’re not there. You know it’s all happening but you’re not there. You can’t see them and they can’t see you. They’ve just fallen over and banged their head. You’re not there. They’re crying. You’re not there. They’ve just come home from school and they’re really upset because they’ve just had an argument with their best friend. You’re not there. It’s bath-time. You’re not there. Story-time. You’re not there. Bedtime. You’re not there. You know it’s all happening but you’re not there. It’s not nice, is it?
When I agreed to help Dave with this book I didn’t really know what to expect. I didn’t know Dave, I didn’t know his situation. I’d heard about Fathers4Justice in the way that you hear about things on the news that have got nothing to do with you: it was interesting, but didn’t make much of an impact on me because, well, because it wasn’t happening to me. I thought these blokes who dressed up as superheroes were quite funny and quite smart and thought that, as a peaceful protest it was just about perfect: it made people notice, it made people smile and no one got hurt. I also wondered what on earth it must feel like to be deprived of your kids. As the father of two young girls, I tried to think what on earth it must be like but I couldn’t really get near it. Then something else would come on the news and I’d think about that.
When I was approached to help Dave with this book there might have been a small part of me that thought “Hmmm, no smoke without fire”. I can’t deny that. I’ve got friends who’ve split up and none of them have ended up hanging off a crane in fancy dress. They argue, they bitch, they get angry, they cry. What they don’t do is dress up like Spiderman or Batman.
You can’t help but think something like “that’s not what happens to normal people. Life doesn’t work like that.” And so I agreed to take on the book. If I’m completely truthful, I thought, in a detached kind of way, it would be interesting. After all, what Dave had gone through and what he was still going through was completely alien to me. Our situations couldn’t be more different. I’ve been happily married for over 10 years. My wife and I both work from home and we share the household and parental stuff down the middle. I’ve got two lovely girls who I take to school every other day and who I pick up from school every other day. I take them to their friends’ houses, pick them up, moan about being nothing but a taxi driver… the whole parent thing. The very idea that I couldn’t see them whenever I wanted was so alien that I couldn’t even conceive of what it must be like. Every time I tried to imagine, I’d hear the kids screaming or fighting or wanting something.
So we started working on the book together, getting to know each other, checking each other out. Apart from growing to like him as a person, my respect for him has grown immeasurably. The pressures that Dave found himself under would have crushed most people. The emotional trauma, the drain would have made most people either behave irrationally or, more probably, badly. Dave has done neither. (Some people might think that dressing up as Spiderman and risking his life off a crane is irrational: I don’t. I think it’s desperate and sad and shocking, but it’s not irrational. It’s what someone does when they’ve run out of choices, when there’s nowhere else to go.
This is Dave’s story. Every story in life has more than one side and, no doubt, you could tell this story more than one way. But this is Dave’s story. It’s his story told in his words and maybe it’s true that my sympathies are with Dave. We’re both men and both know what that feels like. We’re both fathers and both know what that feels like. But it was more than that. It’s more than Dave’s story. It’s Lauren’s story because whenever adults argue, it’s the kids who pick up the tab. The parents hammer away at each other, but it’s the kid who gets the bruise. And that – to use one of my kid’s favourite phrases – is just so badly unfair. Lauren gets the bruise because she’s not allowed to see her dad. Her dad gets the bruise because he’s not allowed to see his daughter. Dave’s story is also the story of a personal journey. I know from personal experience that having a child is like turbo-charging the journey from youth to adulthood, from kid to grown-up. When you have a child, everything changes. It’s a new life – for them and for you. You become a different person. The things that used to be important aren’t so important anymore. The things you used to be concerned about… None of it means anything anymore. What’s important is this baby you’ve created. New parents – all new parents - go from being selfish to being selfless, from irresponsible to responsible. We all go through this. To have the catalyst for this change – your child – taken away so quickly… I can’t even think how horrible that must be. When I agreed to help Dave with this book I didn’t really know what to expect. What I know now is this – and it’s quite simple: He’s a decent, human being who just wants to be with his child. Just like me. And very probably just like you.
Before you start reading this book or this introduction or anything, do this for a minute. Close your eyes. Imagine your children. Imagine them growing up. Imagine them getting a star at school for tidying their desk and them being thrilled about it. Imagine their friend having a birthday party and them coming home with a party bag. Imagine them losing a tooth, the bright red gappy smile and their excitement because they know that this means that the tooth fairy will come. Imagine them growing up. Now imagine all that happening somewhere else. And you’re not there. You know it’s all happening but you’re not there. You can’t see them and they can’t see you. They’ve just fallen over and banged their head. You’re not there. They’re crying. You’re not there. They’ve just come home from school and they’re really upset because they’ve just had an argument with their best friend. You’re not there. It’s bath-time. You’re not there. Story-time. You’re not there. Bedtime. You’re not there. You know it’s all happening but you’re not there. It’s not nice, is it?
When I agreed to help Dave with this book I didn’t really know what to expect. I didn’t know Dave, I didn’t know his situation. I’d heard about Fathers4Justice in the way that you hear about things on the news that have got nothing to do with you: it was interesting, but didn’t make much of an impact on me because, well, because it wasn’t happening to me. I thought these blokes who dressed up as superheroes were quite funny and quite smart and thought that, as a peaceful protest it was just about perfect: it made people notice, it made people smile and no one got hurt. I also wondered what on earth it must feel like to be deprived of your kids. As the father of two young girls, I tried to think what on earth it must be like but I couldn’t really get near it. Then something else would come on the news and I’d think about that.
When I was approached to help Dave with this book there might have been a small part of me that thought “Hmmm, no smoke without fire”. I can’t deny that. I’ve got friends who’ve split up and none of them have ended up hanging off a crane in fancy dress. They argue, they bitch, they get angry, they cry. What they don’t do is dress up like Spiderman or Batman.
You can’t help but think something like “that’s not what happens to normal people. Life doesn’t work like that.” And so I agreed to take on the book. If I’m completely truthful, I thought, in a detached kind of way, it would be interesting. After all, what Dave had gone through and what he was still going through was completely alien to me. Our situations couldn’t be more different. I’ve been happily married for over 10 years. My wife and I both work from home and we share the household and parental stuff down the middle. I’ve got two lovely girls who I take to school every other day and who I pick up from school every other day. I take them to their friends’ houses, pick them up, moan about being nothing but a taxi driver… the whole parent thing. The very idea that I couldn’t see them whenever I wanted was so alien that I couldn’t even conceive of what it must be like. Every time I tried to imagine, I’d hear the kids screaming or fighting or wanting something.
So we started working on the book together, getting to know each other, checking each other out. Apart from growing to like him as a person, my respect for him has grown immeasurably. The pressures that Dave found himself under would have crushed most people. The emotional trauma, the drain would have made most people either behave irrationally or, more probably, badly. Dave has done neither. (Some people might think that dressing up as Spiderman and risking his life off a crane is irrational: I don’t. I think it’s desperate and sad and shocking, but it’s not irrational. It’s what someone does when they’ve run out of choices, when there’s nowhere else to go.
This is Dave’s story. Every story in life has more than one side and, no doubt, you could tell this story more than one way. But this is Dave’s story. It’s his story told in his words and maybe it’s true that my sympathies are with Dave. We’re both men and both know what that feels like. We’re both fathers and both know what that feels like. But it was more than that. It’s more than Dave’s story. It’s Lauren’s story because whenever adults argue, it’s the kids who pick up the tab. The parents hammer away at each other, but it’s the kid who gets the bruise. And that – to use one of my kid’s favourite phrases – is just so badly unfair. Lauren gets the bruise because she’s not allowed to see her dad. Her dad gets the bruise because he’s not allowed to see his daughter. Dave’s story is also the story of a personal journey. I know from personal experience that having a child is like turbo-charging the journey from youth to adulthood, from kid to grown-up. When you have a child, everything changes. It’s a new life – for them and for you. You become a different person. The things that used to be important aren’t so important anymore. The things you used to be concerned about… None of it means anything anymore. What’s important is this baby you’ve created. New parents – all new parents - go from being selfish to being selfless, from irresponsible to responsible. We all go through this. To have the catalyst for this change – your child – taken away so quickly… I can’t even think how horrible that must be. When I agreed to help Dave with this book I didn’t really know what to expect. What I know now is this – and it’s quite simple: He’s a decent, human being who just wants to be with his child. Just like me. And very probably just like you.
Sunday, 6 July 2008
Maxwell would be so proud
Are the funniest little things. Molly and Moby - it's a curious thing but they warm my soul like little else. And Poppy has come good in the best, most heart warming way. (And while we're on Poppy. Apologies to Ireland. Young DJP has put me right - there is a RSPCA network in Ireland. So there).
Waking up in the morning (it's an old habit) and coming downstairs. Open the back and Poppy goes out onto the back deck and just waits. Then I go to the office and let the pups out. A quick kiss and bit of my toes and they fly out through the kitchen and out the back door to where Poppy is waiting. They attack. She smiles and sits there, letting them crawl all over her before... she rolls over and start suckling. It's the most lovely way to start the day.
What a whirl
Blimey. That’s been a few weeks, months even. All the college stuff – the assessments, the marking, the exam boards. Then there’s been the house stuff – a stress that’s somewhere west of stress, something that’s still going on. Every day, another thought, another idea. Then there’s been curveballs like crashing the car – that was a real joy. I kinda figure that one session with Dr Janni and her rubber tube was a small price to pay. (Don’t know if I should write about Dr Janni here. Do people really want to know the truth about an ayervedic enema? I don’t know. It’s not like I’m going to post a picture…)
The college stuff, it’s all an emotional curve to love and learn from. It’s such a strange feeling. These people. What are they? Friends? Students in a long line of more students? Or (as my friend is so fond of saying) merely food? For me I’ve got to say that it’s largely the former – friends. I can’t really look at it any other way and I hope that if I ever stop seeing them as friends, that’ll be the day I find a new job.
It’s interesting how some of the students give you a real thrill, a warm glow. Some you just want to kick in the nose but we’ll let that go. Let’s stay with the family motto and look at the good. The gang that I saw last night are, generally, the reason for doing the job. Good people, bright and optimistc. The spirit of positivism. I like talking to Greg, he reminds me of the good bits of me (albeit the me of a few years older than him). Chancing the chance, smiling through it in the knowledge that a smile and a positive outlook is enough to get through. Genuinely it warms the soul when he tells of blagging an interview with Alex Turner. I used to do that. It’s funny.
I’m kinda through that whole “they’re going to find me out” business and happy in my role. Listen, if Lee can write to me and thank me for all I taught him, life is good.
Now it’s the summer and time to crack on. What to do first? This play I’m supposed to write? Or plough on with the book? I do know that Gaigin Strategies is going to be the one, but when shall I do it?
Saturday, 29 March 2008
Back to School
So now we’re just coming up to the end of the Easter break and, it’s a curious thing, but I’m kinda looking forward to going back. College ended in an odd way. I’m not going to go into in here because, well this is because. Sometime when writing this Blog thing it’s easy to forget that it’s out there in the stratosphere and really it’s sometimes it’s probably best not to put out there because – and here’s the odd thing – people might read it. Yesterday I was speaking to My Mate Steve (OK - we were e-mailing each other: no one actually speaks anymore) and he said “Loving your blog” and it caught me cold. He read it? Why?? And when? I don’t know. When do people get time to do things like read Blogs? It’s not like there’s not enough in life to be getting on with.
Anyway, I was thinking. The older we get, the smaller our worlds get. It’s like going to the cinema on my own, a treat that was a staple of my youth but one of those things (like... just about every other selfish pleasure) that had to move out to accommodate life. You'd have thought The Lord would have foreseen such things and made our lives bigger as we went on. You start off with 24 hours for yourself, but then you're expected to take on board a wife, kids, a job, the dogs, the cats, the kids' friends, the friends’ kids, a mortgage, the garden, a new kitchen – all in that same 24 hours. Who would it hurt if we were given, say, an additional three hours a day with each extra child? OK, so there’d be a bit of re-structuring to do, but I’d be a fantastic parent, do all sorts of things with the kids. I’d go to that evening life drawing class in Bond Street. I would be that person. I wonder if Brighton Progressive Synagogue's got a Suggestion Box? Maybe one day I'll find out. If I ever go there. If I ever get the time.
Anyway, it made me think again about what I write here - the consequence of which is that I’m not going to write anything about college because it might assume a level of over-familiarity that is inappropriate.
But it was a funny old last week. I put on a “disco” – a funny old word, but tell me a better one – for the students. Took in the Laughton Lodge PA, did as much as I could do. Organised a kind of Stick It On evening. Was the impetus for the whole thing. And for what? Frankly by the time it came to it, I’d rather have stayed at home and watched paint dry, but a commitment is a commitment. Hey, they’re only kids.
So anyway. I’ve got this idea. I’m going to create a journalist character called Frank Lee and Frank’s going to be an argumentative, polemic kind of guy. I’ll do a column and I’m going to call it Frank Lee Speaking. You can go mad sitting in a room all day by yourself.
Anyway, I was thinking. The older we get, the smaller our worlds get. It’s like going to the cinema on my own, a treat that was a staple of my youth but one of those things (like... just about every other selfish pleasure) that had to move out to accommodate life. You'd have thought The Lord would have foreseen such things and made our lives bigger as we went on. You start off with 24 hours for yourself, but then you're expected to take on board a wife, kids, a job, the dogs, the cats, the kids' friends, the friends’ kids, a mortgage, the garden, a new kitchen – all in that same 24 hours. Who would it hurt if we were given, say, an additional three hours a day with each extra child? OK, so there’d be a bit of re-structuring to do, but I’d be a fantastic parent, do all sorts of things with the kids. I’d go to that evening life drawing class in Bond Street. I would be that person. I wonder if Brighton Progressive Synagogue's got a Suggestion Box? Maybe one day I'll find out. If I ever go there. If I ever get the time.
Anyway, it made me think again about what I write here - the consequence of which is that I’m not going to write anything about college because it might assume a level of over-familiarity that is inappropriate.
But it was a funny old last week. I put on a “disco” – a funny old word, but tell me a better one – for the students. Took in the Laughton Lodge PA, did as much as I could do. Organised a kind of Stick It On evening. Was the impetus for the whole thing. And for what? Frankly by the time it came to it, I’d rather have stayed at home and watched paint dry, but a commitment is a commitment. Hey, they’re only kids.
So anyway. I’ve got this idea. I’m going to create a journalist character called Frank Lee and Frank’s going to be an argumentative, polemic kind of guy. I’ll do a column and I’m going to call it Frank Lee Speaking. You can go mad sitting in a room all day by yourself.
Friday, 28 March 2008
Poppy's Story
Maybe this is her story. She lived in a happy family somewhere in Ireland, a happy family dog who lived with a mummy, a daddy and maybe a couple of kids. She’d sit by the fire as the kids played and watched Tracey Beaker and she was happy. Then, one day, she went out for a run and got distracted by something. What? I don’t know. But something caught her eye and she was off. She ran and ran and somehow – why? I don’t know – she got lost. She panicked and started running but the more she ran, the more she got lost and then she just ran. Blindly, she just ran. The kids at home were crying. Their parents were out looking. It got dark. No one knew where any of the others were but they were all running, all looking, all losing their way. Then… she ran across a road. It was a quiet country road, no lights, just dark. As she ran across the road, a car came round the corner. Bang! It hit her, caught the back of her and hit her back leg. It flipped her round and she fell on the side of the road, felt dizzy and… passed out.
The next day she was found, battered, beaten and bruised – and very nearly finished – by a local dog walker. She was miles from where she’d started and the walker didn’t recognise her. But he was a kindly soul and took her in. He picked her up gently and put her in his Land Rover. And took her to the police station.
The police didn’t know what to do with her. This being Ireland there was no RSPCA, no animal rescue organisation – they don’t go for that sort of thing there. There’s only local people who do nice things. So the police got in touch with this local person who did nice things and, to cut a long story short, he came to the police station, collected her and took her to a contact he had at the RSPCA in Brighton – a long way from home.
So that’s where she ended up – the RSPCA in Brighton. She came round and found she couldn’t move her back leg. She looked around, hoping to see her kids, her mummy and daddy and instead saw only a cage. And she was in it. What had happened?
“Her operation is tomorrow” she heard a woman called Jenny say.
What was that all about?
Wednesday, 5 March 2008
The iPack - Desert Island Discs
DESERT ISLAND DISCS
I always wanted to do Desert Island Discs. Don't know if they often ask slack bastard lecturers on it though - and I dare say there'd be a queue if they did.
This is the strict 'ten songs in the key of life' format. There are a few crossovers with the "Wake" selection, but so what>
XJ
Nathan Jones - The Supremes
The first record I ever bought. Immigration – West Indian immigration unlike immigrants like us who weren’t immigrants at all what are you suggesting? – was still something that had yet to hit. Sure, there were black people around but black popular culture was still relatively underground. Now, it is the universal language of pop, has been for years, but back then, it was still small scale.
There was a shop on Stamford Hill Broadway, a record shop called Rhythm and Blues, it was like something out of Absolute Beginners. In between the local Woolworths and (naturally) the salt beef bar, Rhythm and Blues was really from somewhere else. I can’t remember what made me first go in there but I remember what it was like: full of smoke, full of black geezers in hats – pork pie hats. God knows where they came from. Never saw them outside the shop. Anyway, you opened the door and, really, it was like walking into another world and the music, the music was intoxicating. It was probably ska – no idea back then - but it sounded fantastic. I started going in there Saturday mornings, never talking to anyone, just lurking around.
Eventually I bought a record – this one. It’s a great tune, still thrills and I kinda like the fact that this is the first record I bought.
The first record I bought for someone else was “The Pushbike Song” by The Mixtures. It was for Jane Fisher. I gave her the record and then asked her out.
Virginia Plain - Roxy Music
I once interviewed Gary Kemp of Spandaus and we were talking about formative influences. We came to the conclusion that if you were our age – and we were basically the same age – you were either formed by seeing Roxy Music do Virginia Plain on Top Of The Pops or seeing David Bowie do Starman on the same show. He chose Bowie, I chose Roxy. Maybe I knew I was never going wherever Bowie was at, but Roxy… that looked interesting. Better song, too
The idea that the death of Top Of The Pops was the death of popular culture as a meeting point is something I’ve banged on about before. Top Of The Pops was, for kids now, a curious phenomenon. The only place where a pop culture could make a splash, the only place the only time. It’s inconceivable now. There are so many outlets – so many places where you can access new stuff it seems strange that there was once one place – and one time a week – where that might happen. Back in the day, someone like Ferry could take a concept and build it and build up to that moment when it would work: that Top Of The Pops performance. He knew – Bowie knew – that if he did it right then, all the kids would be talking about it in the playground the next day. One performance – three minutes on the telly – that’s all you’d need. There’s nothing like that now.
It’s a funny thing, looking back like that. I wonder whether kids will ever have that sense of wonderment again. Looking at the telly and thinking “What the…?”
King Tubby Meets Rockers Uptown - Augustus Pablo
Perfect. (see "Wake" write up for the words)
Fools Gold - The Stone Roses
The record that made me realise I’d lost touch with something. I was standing in the kitchen with Oaksie in the flat we’d bought in Harlesden, just chatting. He’d probably just come back from the bookies or something. We were just hanging out and this came on the telly and, again, it was like out of nowhere. I knew nothing of Madchester, Spike Island or anything. Knew nothing (outside of what the newspapers had told me) about acid house or rave culture. And suddenly I felt very, very old. I had a good job at The Independent, a good stereo, car, a self-cleaning oven, the whole deal. I could have stayed. If I’d have stayed I’d probably be quite successful in newspaperland. Jim, Tris, Giles did… why not? But I don’t know. I heard this song and somehow just knew that there were still adventures to be had. And so I gave my notice in and turned upside down. That it sounds so modern and exactly the same as Can (Soon Over Babaluma era) just makes me smile in that “I knew I was right” way.
Adagio - Samuel Barber
We got married to this. Anything else you need to know?
Into My Arms - Nick Cave
I think if I wrote this… I’d have to kill myself. How could I ever do anything better? Everything would be an anticlimax. It is completely lovely, completely meltingly beautiful.
“I don't believe in an interventionist God,
But I know, darling, that you do,
But if I did I would kneel down and ask Him,
Not to intervene when it came to you,
Not to touch a hair on your head,
To leave you as you are,
And if He felt He had to direct you,
Then direct you into my arms”
Dry The Rain - The Beta Band
Again, a lovely perfect song. It’s not a surprise that the bloke who wrote this went mad afterwards. It’s got that air of fragility, of fractured, shuffling almost-ness. And it reminds me of course of Gill and the early days.
Lost In Music - Sister Sledge
The Laughton era. I’d always fancied doing a bit of the DJ thing and Laughton Lodge gave me the opportunity to do that. For some strange reason when I appeared here the word got around that I was a wires and sound man. I mean, sounds I like but having a few CDs is a long way from being a sound engineer. But that’s what I became. I bought the equipment, controlled the sound desk at shows, kinda owned that area. One of the happy by-products was that I also became the DJ. They’d never really had anyone here before willing to take on this role and I didn’t have to be asked twice. Of course, it was more Michael Jackson than John Digweed but what do you expect from a bunch of large-lobed middle class middle aged types?
The music that did prove irresistible for everyone was Chic (in all its forms). Whatever Rodgers and Edwards did, it was curiously magical and just has that knack of making people happy. And it’s lovely to see.
Shhh/Peaceful - Miles Davis
If there was a fire and I had just enough time to grab one record, it would be In A Silent Way (the six CD Complete Sessions, of course, because why not?) My favourite Miles group doing what they do in the most sublime way. No one dominates, no one bullies anyone else. It’s not ground breaking in that “Blimey, that’s fantastic. Is it finished yet?” way. McLaughlin’s playing is sublime.
6 – Labradford
A song about love and intimacy, something to drift off to that’s warm and soulful and full of heart. Lie in the dark and listen to this: it could go on forever and it still wouldn’t seem too long. I know nothing of Labradford except that they're Canadian and they curate something called The Festival Of Drifting - which seems about right.
A book? I don’t know. There are so many books I haven’t read that I want to read… it seems churlish to choose.
Maybe The Complete Works of Philip Roth (and if such a thing doesn’t exist… well, it should).
I always wanted to do Desert Island Discs. Don't know if they often ask slack bastard lecturers on it though - and I dare say there'd be a queue if they did.
This is the strict 'ten songs in the key of life' format. There are a few crossovers with the "Wake" selection, but so what>
XJ
Nathan Jones - The Supremes
The first record I ever bought. Immigration – West Indian immigration unlike immigrants like us who weren’t immigrants at all what are you suggesting? – was still something that had yet to hit. Sure, there were black people around but black popular culture was still relatively underground. Now, it is the universal language of pop, has been for years, but back then, it was still small scale.
There was a shop on Stamford Hill Broadway, a record shop called Rhythm and Blues, it was like something out of Absolute Beginners. In between the local Woolworths and (naturally) the salt beef bar, Rhythm and Blues was really from somewhere else. I can’t remember what made me first go in there but I remember what it was like: full of smoke, full of black geezers in hats – pork pie hats. God knows where they came from. Never saw them outside the shop. Anyway, you opened the door and, really, it was like walking into another world and the music, the music was intoxicating. It was probably ska – no idea back then - but it sounded fantastic. I started going in there Saturday mornings, never talking to anyone, just lurking around.
Eventually I bought a record – this one. It’s a great tune, still thrills and I kinda like the fact that this is the first record I bought.
The first record I bought for someone else was “The Pushbike Song” by The Mixtures. It was for Jane Fisher. I gave her the record and then asked her out.
Virginia Plain - Roxy Music
I once interviewed Gary Kemp of Spandaus and we were talking about formative influences. We came to the conclusion that if you were our age – and we were basically the same age – you were either formed by seeing Roxy Music do Virginia Plain on Top Of The Pops or seeing David Bowie do Starman on the same show. He chose Bowie, I chose Roxy. Maybe I knew I was never going wherever Bowie was at, but Roxy… that looked interesting. Better song, too
The idea that the death of Top Of The Pops was the death of popular culture as a meeting point is something I’ve banged on about before. Top Of The Pops was, for kids now, a curious phenomenon. The only place where a pop culture could make a splash, the only place the only time. It’s inconceivable now. There are so many outlets – so many places where you can access new stuff it seems strange that there was once one place – and one time a week – where that might happen. Back in the day, someone like Ferry could take a concept and build it and build up to that moment when it would work: that Top Of The Pops performance. He knew – Bowie knew – that if he did it right then, all the kids would be talking about it in the playground the next day. One performance – three minutes on the telly – that’s all you’d need. There’s nothing like that now.
It’s a funny thing, looking back like that. I wonder whether kids will ever have that sense of wonderment again. Looking at the telly and thinking “What the…?”
King Tubby Meets Rockers Uptown - Augustus Pablo
Perfect. (see "Wake" write up for the words)
Fools Gold - The Stone Roses
The record that made me realise I’d lost touch with something. I was standing in the kitchen with Oaksie in the flat we’d bought in Harlesden, just chatting. He’d probably just come back from the bookies or something. We were just hanging out and this came on the telly and, again, it was like out of nowhere. I knew nothing of Madchester, Spike Island or anything. Knew nothing (outside of what the newspapers had told me) about acid house or rave culture. And suddenly I felt very, very old. I had a good job at The Independent, a good stereo, car, a self-cleaning oven, the whole deal. I could have stayed. If I’d have stayed I’d probably be quite successful in newspaperland. Jim, Tris, Giles did… why not? But I don’t know. I heard this song and somehow just knew that there were still adventures to be had. And so I gave my notice in and turned upside down. That it sounds so modern and exactly the same as Can (Soon Over Babaluma era) just makes me smile in that “I knew I was right” way.
Adagio - Samuel Barber
We got married to this. Anything else you need to know?
Into My Arms - Nick Cave
I think if I wrote this… I’d have to kill myself. How could I ever do anything better? Everything would be an anticlimax. It is completely lovely, completely meltingly beautiful.
“I don't believe in an interventionist God,
But I know, darling, that you do,
But if I did I would kneel down and ask Him,
Not to intervene when it came to you,
Not to touch a hair on your head,
To leave you as you are,
And if He felt He had to direct you,
Then direct you into my arms”
Dry The Rain - The Beta Band
Again, a lovely perfect song. It’s not a surprise that the bloke who wrote this went mad afterwards. It’s got that air of fragility, of fractured, shuffling almost-ness. And it reminds me of course of Gill and the early days.
Lost In Music - Sister Sledge
The Laughton era. I’d always fancied doing a bit of the DJ thing and Laughton Lodge gave me the opportunity to do that. For some strange reason when I appeared here the word got around that I was a wires and sound man. I mean, sounds I like but having a few CDs is a long way from being a sound engineer. But that’s what I became. I bought the equipment, controlled the sound desk at shows, kinda owned that area. One of the happy by-products was that I also became the DJ. They’d never really had anyone here before willing to take on this role and I didn’t have to be asked twice. Of course, it was more Michael Jackson than John Digweed but what do you expect from a bunch of large-lobed middle class middle aged types?
The music that did prove irresistible for everyone was Chic (in all its forms). Whatever Rodgers and Edwards did, it was curiously magical and just has that knack of making people happy. And it’s lovely to see.
Shhh/Peaceful - Miles Davis
If there was a fire and I had just enough time to grab one record, it would be In A Silent Way (the six CD Complete Sessions, of course, because why not?) My favourite Miles group doing what they do in the most sublime way. No one dominates, no one bullies anyone else. It’s not ground breaking in that “Blimey, that’s fantastic. Is it finished yet?” way. McLaughlin’s playing is sublime.
6 – Labradford
A song about love and intimacy, something to drift off to that’s warm and soulful and full of heart. Lie in the dark and listen to this: it could go on forever and it still wouldn’t seem too long. I know nothing of Labradford except that they're Canadian and they curate something called The Festival Of Drifting - which seems about right.
A book? I don’t know. There are so many books I haven’t read that I want to read… it seems churlish to choose.
Maybe The Complete Works of Philip Roth (and if such a thing doesn’t exist… well, it should).
Saturday, 1 March 2008
The iPack - Songs For My Wake
The iPack is, as you know, a Boy's Own Thing. A group of us - there were six but now there are four - and each month one of us bequeaths a title. We all go then go off a interpret a CD that, to us, reflects that title. And, if we like, we write a little explanation. And then maybe post them on our Blogs. So...
SONGS FOR MY WAKE – SAPPHIRE BULLETS OF PURE LOVE
Songs For My Wake – a trip through a life tragically cut short by that freak accident involving a cheese grater, a Roman Candle and a small black and white cat called Bonnie.
VIRGINIA PLAIN - ROXY MUSIC
I once interviewed Gary Kemp of Spandaus and we were talking about formative influences. We came to the conclusion that if you were our age – and we were basically the same age – you were either formed by seeing Roxy Music do Virginia Plain on Top Of The Pops or seeing David Bowie do Starman on the same show. He chose Bowie, I chose Roxy. Maybe I knew I was never going wherever Bowie was at, but Roxy… that looked interesting. Better song, too
The idea that the death of Top Of The Pops was the death of popular culture as a meeting point is something I’ve banged on about before. Top Of The Pops was, for kids now, a curious phenomenon. The only place where a pop culture could make a splash, the only place the only time. It’s inconceivable now. There are so many outlets – so many places where you can access new stuff it seems strange that there was once one place – and one time a week – where that might happen. Back in the day, someone like Ferry could take a concept and build it and build up to that moment when it would work: that Top Of The Pops performance. He knew – Bowie knew – that if he did it right then, all the kids would be talking about it in the playground the next day. One performance – three minutes on the telly – that’s all you’d need. There’s nothing like that now.
It’s a funny thing, looking back like that. I wonder whether kids will ever have that sense of wonderment again. Looking at the telly and thinking “What the…?”
KING TUBBY MEETS ROCKERS UPTOWN - AUGUSTUS PABLO
So there was a bloke at school called something like Anthony Skolopozinsky. Something like that. Everyone called him Scollop. He was OK, a bit of an oddball, but OK. I can’t remember how or why, but I went to his flat. A dull council block in Hackney. His room though… boxes and boxes of reggae 12”s. I wish I could remember the story of how this 13-year-old Jewish boy from a dull council block in Hackney turned from a bit of an oddball to Jah Scollop but… I spent the day there being educated. And went back. I think that was the first time I heard this tune. Immediately I recognised it for what it was: the finest tune ever recorded. Don’t ask why or nothing. It just is.
FREEDOM IS FRIGHTENING – STOMU YAMASH’TA -
This boy called Geoffrey Myers joined school. He was a bit different. I can’t remember exactly why, but he was odd. Got thrown out of school not long after he arrived. I can’t remember exactly why. He was blonde – and there weren’t many blonde kids at school (it’s not a popular Jew thing) so… maybe that was it. Anyway. I hooked up with Geoffrey Myers and he took me to the Roundhouse. I’d never been before. I remember walking in and it was like a wonderland. There was this long-haired bloke who’d proclaimed himself Jesus and put on sandwich boards telling us all that we were saved. Strange characters. Weird scenes inside the goldmine as someone else once said. We went upstairs and sat down with the hard core hippies, smoked their dope, felt sick. I remember seeing all sort of bands during this period – Curved Air, Alex Harvey, the mind-blowing Hawkwind, but the thing that stands out was Stomu Yamash’ta’s Red Buddha Theatre. A theatrical troupe prancing around in a traditional manner and behind them this mad percussion-based band. It’s art, innit.
SAPPHIRE BULLETS OF PURE LOVE - MAHAVISHNU ORCHESTRA
There was a period in the early to mid Seventies where it all went a bit prog. Look, I’m a middle class white boy: it happens. I saw Yes doing Topographic Oceans, Genesis doing Lamb Lies Down On Broadway and all manner of nonsense. The straw snapped when I was taken to see ELP at Wembley and saw nothing except one of the drummer’s arms. Enough. So I holed up and took refuge in what was called jazz fusion. Weather Report, Herbie Hancock, Chick Corea, Miles. I had a particular soft spot for John McLaughlin and his Mahavishnus. Live, it was head-spinning. Mad and very funny. A famous music writer once wrote “Why judge a guitar solo by the speed with which it is played? You wouldn’t judge a novel by the speed with which it is written”. I couldn’t disagree more. The Mahavishnus. Practically perfect in every way.
MOONSHAKE - CAN
So the mid-Seventies. There was the art pop stuff, but that had gone off when Eno left Roxy (Sorry Martino – but it’s true). There was the Roundhouse hippie thing and the Scollop inspired reggae. And there was what was called KrautRock. Can were mesmeric (see A Song For Europe compilation) throwing rhythmic shapes around like aural graffiti, hitting a groove and rocking it, trance-style. One of these compilations I’ll sneak on something from Soon Over Babaluma. Can even had a hit single.
MASCULINE GENDER - RANKING TREVOR
Much of the Seventies was characterised by sitting in my room and listening to John Peel. As Tom Jones once said, it’s not unusual. You heard all manner of strange stuff there – Ivor Cutler, Sir Henry at Rawlinson End, and bags of reggae. Ranking Trevor was mid to late Seventies and has always stuck in my head. Maybe the name stood out – Trevor never seemed much of a name for a Rasta dude, but it’s a fantastic tune.
WHAT IN THEWORLD – DAVID BOWIE
Listening to John Peel and getting stoned. “Jeremy. You look dopey” as my mother once said.
ONE CHORD WONDERS - THE ADVERTS
Punk was very funny, and after all that really quite serious mid-Seventies stuff (both musical and life) an astonishing breath of fresh air. I kinda knew it was going to come – I’d seen Patti Smith and The Stranglers at The Roundhouse, but not sadly The Ramones – but still. The thing with punk is that I was close, but not that close. The same time Johnny was doing his audition at Sex… There was a second hand clothes shop on The Kings Road called Eat Your Heart Out which sold very fine old zoot suits a few doors away from Sex, just round the bend. I used to hang out in this shop, happily ignored by everyone in there – they were far cooler than a boy like me – blissfully unaware that about 10 yards away there was a social revolution being hatched. Frankly, I was more interested in whether the jacket had six buttons or four. Similarly the punk band I latched onto was The Adverts - I went to see them Saturday nights at The Nashville – possibly the least cool of all the early punk bands. One question: did the Clash have Gaye Advert?
REPITITION - THE FALL
Was there ever a band like The Fall? No. Never was, never will be. This was the song that convinced me of their greatness. The B-side of their first single. Frankly startling. The Fall were the reason (along with Joy Division and the side-fact that it was the only college in the western hemisphere to offer me a place) that I went to Manchester Poly. How many Fall gigs did I see there? What can I tell you? I got a third. I once dragged Sarah and Catherine to a Fall gig at Manchester University. I don’t think either spoke to me for weeks. Obviously they were so grateful they didn’t know quite what to say. It reminds me of the time I finally got to take out Perry Burns. I was maybe 15. I’d been dancing round her maypole for ages and she finally relented. In time honoured teen boy fashion, I decided to take her to the cinema. (Listen, we’ve all seen the popcorn scene in Diner). Anyway I thought I’d show her how sophisticated I was and took her to see Last Tango In Paris… That went down well. (Which is more than you can say for her…)
DO THE DU - A CERTAIN RATIO
Manchester was supposed to be all about Joy Division and in a way it was. I saw them there more than a few times and, seeing Ian Curtis on stage, it wasn’t a total surprise that he topped himself. But really our band was ACR. They were locals and we got to know them a fair bit. Mick better than me. He played football in the same team as them. They had this club, The Beach Club, which was a house in a street. The lounge was the stage, a bedroom upstairs the bar. We saw U2 at the Beach on their first UK tour, helped them load their gear at the end of the night. ACR were properly one of us. Never did understand why they didn’t hit big.
NEVER UNDERSTAND - THE JESUS AND MARY CHAIN
This kinda summed up my feelings about Eighties music. It largely passed me by. It looked good and everything was seemingly in the right place, but there was no… middle. No soul. All that faux jazz, it left me cold. JAMC were the perfect antidote to all that perfect smooth-edged pop where production values were more important than heart. They had better tunes too, though nobody ever cared about that.
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT - JOHN COLTRANE
All through this journey, rhythm took precedent over melody. The grooves of Can. The heartbeat of dub. Looking back, I wish I had been more of a disco head – it sounds more fun than anything else. But I wasn’t. I can’t remember a single Eighties band I cared about. The Smiths I only ever cared for after the event. There was the odd rap tune I locked into, but I didn’t dig the posturing. Reggae moved into syrupy lovers and shouty dancehall. So I took refuge in jazz. Jazz had all the ingredients that the Eighties lacked. I was going to pick Eric Dolphy’s Out To Lunch, undeniably the last great acoustic jazz album, but in the end plumped for this. You can’t argue with it. And at a wake… it’d be perfect.
PURE (ENERGY) – GTO
Then I found myself in Tokyo. That’s a story for another CD but consider this. We walked into the Maharajah Palace, and were immediately dubbed ‘The Two Fat Yuppies’. That went down well. I walked into the lounge, a louche parlour where bodies were sprawled all over the place. I asked a young hunk, a Canadian called Bradley, what the story that night was. “We’ll go to Gold and take some acid”. I’d never had any acid. Then again, I’d never been to Gold before. Or Tokyo come to that. So I went. I walked in, and took some acid that Bradley gave me. The whole place was full of dry ice and this was playing. Hearing it now, it sounds kinda mild, but at the time… it took my heart. And the next three years.
MOVIN ON UP - PRIMAL SCREAM
Now Kevin was a boy. He lived at one end of the corridor upstairs, I lived at the other end. You walked down the hallways and heard endless variations of the same techno tune and you bounced along till you got in your room and put on your own variation of that same tune. Kevin had a knack of getting hold of CDs as opposed to DJ mix tapes. He had his own method of shopping. And one day came back with this. The whole house listened.
TAIYO – PRANA
Return to the Source. It was the soundtrack to the early-mid Nineties. Side one was up, side two was drifty. Side two was Elly’s sleeptime music. Like Pavlov’s Dog, it sent her where she needed to go. My mate Tsyoshi was Prana and the mover behind Return. Years lost. Happily.
ADAGIO FOR STRINGS - SAMUEL BARBER
We got married to this.
DEAD MELODIES – BECK
Six years as a music critic. How lovely. Every day Postman Pat would appear with a bang of jiffys, and every day my throbbing pile of CDs to sell grew and grew. We got a good few family holidays every year out of those CDs. The curious thing was just how many CDs were released, seeing the way it all worked. How long a new band got, how they were marketed, the numbers that made it viable. Every so often there was someone who did it their way – that made it worthwhile. A letter was published in the Express saying how this person had never heard of Jah Wobble and thanks to the music page, they now had. Maybe that would have been more pleasing had I not been Letters page editor as well as Music critic.
GOOD SONG – BLUR
The best band of the Nineties, the band that defined an era, Blur were as sharp as a tack and slippery as a slick. Beck, Blur and the Scream made that music critic job worthwhile.
DOOM'S NIGHT - AZZIDO DA BASS
So then it was Sorted – the mudma years. It was kinda invigorating working for a youth title with a load of up for it Twentysomethings. Tiring but invigorating.
SONGS FOR MY WAKE – SAPPHIRE BULLETS OF PURE LOVE
Songs For My Wake – a trip through a life tragically cut short by that freak accident involving a cheese grater, a Roman Candle and a small black and white cat called Bonnie.
VIRGINIA PLAIN - ROXY MUSIC
I once interviewed Gary Kemp of Spandaus and we were talking about formative influences. We came to the conclusion that if you were our age – and we were basically the same age – you were either formed by seeing Roxy Music do Virginia Plain on Top Of The Pops or seeing David Bowie do Starman on the same show. He chose Bowie, I chose Roxy. Maybe I knew I was never going wherever Bowie was at, but Roxy… that looked interesting. Better song, too
The idea that the death of Top Of The Pops was the death of popular culture as a meeting point is something I’ve banged on about before. Top Of The Pops was, for kids now, a curious phenomenon. The only place where a pop culture could make a splash, the only place the only time. It’s inconceivable now. There are so many outlets – so many places where you can access new stuff it seems strange that there was once one place – and one time a week – where that might happen. Back in the day, someone like Ferry could take a concept and build it and build up to that moment when it would work: that Top Of The Pops performance. He knew – Bowie knew – that if he did it right then, all the kids would be talking about it in the playground the next day. One performance – three minutes on the telly – that’s all you’d need. There’s nothing like that now.
It’s a funny thing, looking back like that. I wonder whether kids will ever have that sense of wonderment again. Looking at the telly and thinking “What the…?”
KING TUBBY MEETS ROCKERS UPTOWN - AUGUSTUS PABLO
So there was a bloke at school called something like Anthony Skolopozinsky. Something like that. Everyone called him Scollop. He was OK, a bit of an oddball, but OK. I can’t remember how or why, but I went to his flat. A dull council block in Hackney. His room though… boxes and boxes of reggae 12”s. I wish I could remember the story of how this 13-year-old Jewish boy from a dull council block in Hackney turned from a bit of an oddball to Jah Scollop but… I spent the day there being educated. And went back. I think that was the first time I heard this tune. Immediately I recognised it for what it was: the finest tune ever recorded. Don’t ask why or nothing. It just is.
FREEDOM IS FRIGHTENING – STOMU YAMASH’TA -
This boy called Geoffrey Myers joined school. He was a bit different. I can’t remember exactly why, but he was odd. Got thrown out of school not long after he arrived. I can’t remember exactly why. He was blonde – and there weren’t many blonde kids at school (it’s not a popular Jew thing) so… maybe that was it. Anyway. I hooked up with Geoffrey Myers and he took me to the Roundhouse. I’d never been before. I remember walking in and it was like a wonderland. There was this long-haired bloke who’d proclaimed himself Jesus and put on sandwich boards telling us all that we were saved. Strange characters. Weird scenes inside the goldmine as someone else once said. We went upstairs and sat down with the hard core hippies, smoked their dope, felt sick. I remember seeing all sort of bands during this period – Curved Air, Alex Harvey, the mind-blowing Hawkwind, but the thing that stands out was Stomu Yamash’ta’s Red Buddha Theatre. A theatrical troupe prancing around in a traditional manner and behind them this mad percussion-based band. It’s art, innit.
SAPPHIRE BULLETS OF PURE LOVE - MAHAVISHNU ORCHESTRA
There was a period in the early to mid Seventies where it all went a bit prog. Look, I’m a middle class white boy: it happens. I saw Yes doing Topographic Oceans, Genesis doing Lamb Lies Down On Broadway and all manner of nonsense. The straw snapped when I was taken to see ELP at Wembley and saw nothing except one of the drummer’s arms. Enough. So I holed up and took refuge in what was called jazz fusion. Weather Report, Herbie Hancock, Chick Corea, Miles. I had a particular soft spot for John McLaughlin and his Mahavishnus. Live, it was head-spinning. Mad and very funny. A famous music writer once wrote “Why judge a guitar solo by the speed with which it is played? You wouldn’t judge a novel by the speed with which it is written”. I couldn’t disagree more. The Mahavishnus. Practically perfect in every way.
MOONSHAKE - CAN
So the mid-Seventies. There was the art pop stuff, but that had gone off when Eno left Roxy (Sorry Martino – but it’s true). There was the Roundhouse hippie thing and the Scollop inspired reggae. And there was what was called KrautRock. Can were mesmeric (see A Song For Europe compilation) throwing rhythmic shapes around like aural graffiti, hitting a groove and rocking it, trance-style. One of these compilations I’ll sneak on something from Soon Over Babaluma. Can even had a hit single.
MASCULINE GENDER - RANKING TREVOR
Much of the Seventies was characterised by sitting in my room and listening to John Peel. As Tom Jones once said, it’s not unusual. You heard all manner of strange stuff there – Ivor Cutler, Sir Henry at Rawlinson End, and bags of reggae. Ranking Trevor was mid to late Seventies and has always stuck in my head. Maybe the name stood out – Trevor never seemed much of a name for a Rasta dude, but it’s a fantastic tune.
WHAT IN THEWORLD – DAVID BOWIE
Listening to John Peel and getting stoned. “Jeremy. You look dopey” as my mother once said.
ONE CHORD WONDERS - THE ADVERTS
Punk was very funny, and after all that really quite serious mid-Seventies stuff (both musical and life) an astonishing breath of fresh air. I kinda knew it was going to come – I’d seen Patti Smith and The Stranglers at The Roundhouse, but not sadly The Ramones – but still. The thing with punk is that I was close, but not that close. The same time Johnny was doing his audition at Sex… There was a second hand clothes shop on The Kings Road called Eat Your Heart Out which sold very fine old zoot suits a few doors away from Sex, just round the bend. I used to hang out in this shop, happily ignored by everyone in there – they were far cooler than a boy like me – blissfully unaware that about 10 yards away there was a social revolution being hatched. Frankly, I was more interested in whether the jacket had six buttons or four. Similarly the punk band I latched onto was The Adverts - I went to see them Saturday nights at The Nashville – possibly the least cool of all the early punk bands. One question: did the Clash have Gaye Advert?
REPITITION - THE FALL
Was there ever a band like The Fall? No. Never was, never will be. This was the song that convinced me of their greatness. The B-side of their first single. Frankly startling. The Fall were the reason (along with Joy Division and the side-fact that it was the only college in the western hemisphere to offer me a place) that I went to Manchester Poly. How many Fall gigs did I see there? What can I tell you? I got a third. I once dragged Sarah and Catherine to a Fall gig at Manchester University. I don’t think either spoke to me for weeks. Obviously they were so grateful they didn’t know quite what to say. It reminds me of the time I finally got to take out Perry Burns. I was maybe 15. I’d been dancing round her maypole for ages and she finally relented. In time honoured teen boy fashion, I decided to take her to the cinema. (Listen, we’ve all seen the popcorn scene in Diner). Anyway I thought I’d show her how sophisticated I was and took her to see Last Tango In Paris… That went down well. (Which is more than you can say for her…)
DO THE DU - A CERTAIN RATIO
Manchester was supposed to be all about Joy Division and in a way it was. I saw them there more than a few times and, seeing Ian Curtis on stage, it wasn’t a total surprise that he topped himself. But really our band was ACR. They were locals and we got to know them a fair bit. Mick better than me. He played football in the same team as them. They had this club, The Beach Club, which was a house in a street. The lounge was the stage, a bedroom upstairs the bar. We saw U2 at the Beach on their first UK tour, helped them load their gear at the end of the night. ACR were properly one of us. Never did understand why they didn’t hit big.
NEVER UNDERSTAND - THE JESUS AND MARY CHAIN
This kinda summed up my feelings about Eighties music. It largely passed me by. It looked good and everything was seemingly in the right place, but there was no… middle. No soul. All that faux jazz, it left me cold. JAMC were the perfect antidote to all that perfect smooth-edged pop where production values were more important than heart. They had better tunes too, though nobody ever cared about that.
ACKNOWLEDGEMENT - JOHN COLTRANE
All through this journey, rhythm took precedent over melody. The grooves of Can. The heartbeat of dub. Looking back, I wish I had been more of a disco head – it sounds more fun than anything else. But I wasn’t. I can’t remember a single Eighties band I cared about. The Smiths I only ever cared for after the event. There was the odd rap tune I locked into, but I didn’t dig the posturing. Reggae moved into syrupy lovers and shouty dancehall. So I took refuge in jazz. Jazz had all the ingredients that the Eighties lacked. I was going to pick Eric Dolphy’s Out To Lunch, undeniably the last great acoustic jazz album, but in the end plumped for this. You can’t argue with it. And at a wake… it’d be perfect.
PURE (ENERGY) – GTO
Then I found myself in Tokyo. That’s a story for another CD but consider this. We walked into the Maharajah Palace, and were immediately dubbed ‘The Two Fat Yuppies’. That went down well. I walked into the lounge, a louche parlour where bodies were sprawled all over the place. I asked a young hunk, a Canadian called Bradley, what the story that night was. “We’ll go to Gold and take some acid”. I’d never had any acid. Then again, I’d never been to Gold before. Or Tokyo come to that. So I went. I walked in, and took some acid that Bradley gave me. The whole place was full of dry ice and this was playing. Hearing it now, it sounds kinda mild, but at the time… it took my heart. And the next three years.
MOVIN ON UP - PRIMAL SCREAM
Now Kevin was a boy. He lived at one end of the corridor upstairs, I lived at the other end. You walked down the hallways and heard endless variations of the same techno tune and you bounced along till you got in your room and put on your own variation of that same tune. Kevin had a knack of getting hold of CDs as opposed to DJ mix tapes. He had his own method of shopping. And one day came back with this. The whole house listened.
TAIYO – PRANA
Return to the Source. It was the soundtrack to the early-mid Nineties. Side one was up, side two was drifty. Side two was Elly’s sleeptime music. Like Pavlov’s Dog, it sent her where she needed to go. My mate Tsyoshi was Prana and the mover behind Return. Years lost. Happily.
ADAGIO FOR STRINGS - SAMUEL BARBER
We got married to this.
DEAD MELODIES – BECK
Six years as a music critic. How lovely. Every day Postman Pat would appear with a bang of jiffys, and every day my throbbing pile of CDs to sell grew and grew. We got a good few family holidays every year out of those CDs. The curious thing was just how many CDs were released, seeing the way it all worked. How long a new band got, how they were marketed, the numbers that made it viable. Every so often there was someone who did it their way – that made it worthwhile. A letter was published in the Express saying how this person had never heard of Jah Wobble and thanks to the music page, they now had. Maybe that would have been more pleasing had I not been Letters page editor as well as Music critic.
GOOD SONG – BLUR
The best band of the Nineties, the band that defined an era, Blur were as sharp as a tack and slippery as a slick. Beck, Blur and the Scream made that music critic job worthwhile.
DOOM'S NIGHT - AZZIDO DA BASS
So then it was Sorted – the mudma years. It was kinda invigorating working for a youth title with a load of up for it Twentysomethings. Tiring but invigorating.
Wednesday, 27 February 2008
The Great British Novel
I’ve got this great idea for a story. Well, OK. It was given to me – well, the bones of it anyway – but that doesn’t matter. It’s a great story. A man, a student, decides to pay his way through college by being a sperm donor. So he gives his sperm and gives his sperm. It’s all good. This bloke – we’ll call him Will – is studying to be a doctor. He’s tall and blond, strong and athletic. The sort of bloke who your mother would want you to marry. This guy offers his sperm and it goes to the top of the sperm charts. He’s the perfect physical speciment.
But he’s got a secret, a secret even he doesn’t know. He’s (and here we’ve got to work on it a bit) got a madness, a psychopathic madness – a congenital psychopathic madness.
Anyway, many years – well, maybe 10 – down the line, Susan is having trouble with her daughter Molly. Molly is very bright but she’s got an evil streak, a mean side to her that’s a little bit disturbed. And Susan doesn’t know what to do. She can’t ask her partner because she doesn’t have a partner. She never has had. A few lost loves, the usual catalogue of losers and chancers, nearlys and almosts. When Susan was 31, she met the man of her life, the Big Love. But – and we don’t need to go into the detail here – he was a twat, a lying, cheating, no-good dirty low-down hound dog. He wrecked her life and she swore – she absolutely swore – never to fall for a man again. She’d have a baby.
Anyway, back to the main story. Susan tries all sorts of things and, in the end, she goes to a parent-child therapy class because – obviously, she thinks that it’s all her fault. While she’s there, she meets another woman, like her the mother of a 10 year old girl. They start talking.
Can you guess where this one’s going? OK, let’s spell it out a bit more.
This other woman, her story is remarkably similar to Susans. She’s a lesbian but, that apart, it’s the same. Lost love, disappointment, betrayal. Refuge sought in a baby.
Now you know what’s going to happen. They start talking, realise that they both got pregnant after going to sperm donor centre in Gradham. Now then – you and I know the next question: how many other babies were born between 1980 and 1985?
So OK. That’s the pitch. It’s like a cross between The Boys From Brazil and maybe The Midwitch Cuckoos.
How many are there? Does something happen to them to ‘kick-start’ the inner madness that propels them? Shall we turn them into an army?
But he’s got a secret, a secret even he doesn’t know. He’s (and here we’ve got to work on it a bit) got a madness, a psychopathic madness – a congenital psychopathic madness.
Anyway, many years – well, maybe 10 – down the line, Susan is having trouble with her daughter Molly. Molly is very bright but she’s got an evil streak, a mean side to her that’s a little bit disturbed. And Susan doesn’t know what to do. She can’t ask her partner because she doesn’t have a partner. She never has had. A few lost loves, the usual catalogue of losers and chancers, nearlys and almosts. When Susan was 31, she met the man of her life, the Big Love. But – and we don’t need to go into the detail here – he was a twat, a lying, cheating, no-good dirty low-down hound dog. He wrecked her life and she swore – she absolutely swore – never to fall for a man again. She’d have a baby.
Anyway, back to the main story. Susan tries all sorts of things and, in the end, she goes to a parent-child therapy class because – obviously, she thinks that it’s all her fault. While she’s there, she meets another woman, like her the mother of a 10 year old girl. They start talking.
Can you guess where this one’s going? OK, let’s spell it out a bit more.
This other woman, her story is remarkably similar to Susans. She’s a lesbian but, that apart, it’s the same. Lost love, disappointment, betrayal. Refuge sought in a baby.
Now you know what’s going to happen. They start talking, realise that they both got pregnant after going to sperm donor centre in Gradham. Now then – you and I know the next question: how many other babies were born between 1980 and 1985?
So OK. That’s the pitch. It’s like a cross between The Boys From Brazil and maybe The Midwitch Cuckoos.
How many are there? Does something happen to them to ‘kick-start’ the inner madness that propels them? Shall we turn them into an army?
The Perfect Job
Today though I’ve been in beautiful downtown Newport. Not even Newport in south Wales where, for sure, there’d be plenty of other room services on offer. No, this was Newport in Essex, a town guaranteed to garner the response “There’s a Newport in Essex?” The NCTJ has its headquarters in Newport, Essex. What does it tell us about the NCTJ that it has its HQ in Newport, Essex? Maybe this: that it operates in the modern world, that it doesn’t have to be in thrall to the London tyranny of see and be seen, that it is confident and independent, that it is so sure of its position it doesn’t have to spend squilions on a flash address to impress. Maybe that’s what it says. To be honest, being a shallow kinda guy, I’d have preferred it if they’d had an office in Soho and I could have sat and been really interested for maybe five hours and then had a bit of a mooch. As it was I went to Newport in Essex and was really interested for maybe five hours and also spent six hours on various trains. “Change at Tottenham Hale”. What the blimmin is that all about?
Don’t know why, but I’ve been listening to the first Siouxsie & The Banshees album. Fantastically nihilistic - “I’m sorry that I hit you but my string snapped, I’m sorry I disturbed your cat nap. But whilst finishing the chores I asked myself ‘What for?’ then something snapped I had a relapse…” - which always ticks a certain box, “Should I throw something at the neighbours, expose myself to strangers…” If I could guarantee they wouldn’t laugh, it might be something to consider.
My job. It’s a curious thing. Sometimes I think it’s great. Give something back, encourage the next generation, after all those cynical journo years of take, take, take.
You didn’t buy any of that? No, probably not. OK, how’s this. A full time job where you get Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday morning and Friday morning off. A full time job where – when you go in – you talk about who is the best drummer in the world, where you pretend to be interested in sport…
“Are you going to the Cup final?” they say to me.
What am I going to say? That actually what I really want to do is the gardening? What’s wrong with that? Do the gardening in the afternoon and listen to it on the radio and then – if it sounded OK – watch the highlights at night. What’s wrong with that? I’d do that, given the choice.
I don’t know. It’s like some great celestial gag. After all those years of hating bloody journalists and what they did and where they worked… I get the perfect job that allows me the time to write a book, that allows me the time and space – and money – not to have to try and be a journalist and what is that dream job? Training bloody journalists. Frankly, it’s the sort of thing I’d do if I were God. Jed Almighty, that sort of thing.
Don’t know why, but I’ve been listening to the first Siouxsie & The Banshees album. Fantastically nihilistic - “I’m sorry that I hit you but my string snapped, I’m sorry I disturbed your cat nap. But whilst finishing the chores I asked myself ‘What for?’ then something snapped I had a relapse…” - which always ticks a certain box, “Should I throw something at the neighbours, expose myself to strangers…” If I could guarantee they wouldn’t laugh, it might be something to consider.
My job. It’s a curious thing. Sometimes I think it’s great. Give something back, encourage the next generation, after all those cynical journo years of take, take, take.
You didn’t buy any of that? No, probably not. OK, how’s this. A full time job where you get Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday morning and Friday morning off. A full time job where – when you go in – you talk about who is the best drummer in the world, where you pretend to be interested in sport…
“Are you going to the Cup final?” they say to me.
What am I going to say? That actually what I really want to do is the gardening? What’s wrong with that? Do the gardening in the afternoon and listen to it on the radio and then – if it sounded OK – watch the highlights at night. What’s wrong with that? I’d do that, given the choice.
I don’t know. It’s like some great celestial gag. After all those years of hating bloody journalists and what they did and where they worked… I get the perfect job that allows me the time to write a book, that allows me the time and space – and money – not to have to try and be a journalist and what is that dream job? Training bloody journalists. Frankly, it’s the sort of thing I’d do if I were God. Jed Almighty, that sort of thing.
It’s all too much
It’s all too much. It’s two weeks since Maxwell went away and he still hasn’t come back. Every morning I wake – it’s a habit, I know – and every morning I look out at the area I euphemistically call Primrose Hill (we used to live in Primrose Hill) and every morning I think about Maxwell and think about the good life he had and the journey from Battersea and the rich tapestry and what it’s like and… and… and it’s all for nothing. Bloody dog’s not there.
It’s been a year for deaths and I hope this is the end. It started with Fluffy. Fluffy was a great bunny. I’ve not got a great deal of experience with rabbits and I don’t know that much, but one thing I do know is this: Fluffy was a great bunny. I’ll tell you a story about Fluffy that will show you just how great a bunny Fluffy was.
This is the story. The story is this. When we got Fluffy we decided that he was “a house rabbit”. No one asked Fluffy, no one told us; we just decided. We’d got Fluffy for LouLou for Christmas 2005, six weeks old, this little bundle of grey fluff. A lop-eared lionhead. We came up smart arse adult names like Starsky or Stew or, I don’t know, but LouLou had that clarity of childhood. LouLou took one look at him and called him ‘Fluffy’. It was, of course, perfect. Anyway, Fluffy lived in LouLou’s room – or more precisely under her bed. It was an unsatisfactory arrangement for everyone. Fluff hid under the bed, made a mess, poo’d everywhere. Ate all the wires and nearly killed me when I inadvertently touched an exposed end. He quickly became a nuisance, something that we never saw but had to clear up after.
We decided that Fluffy the house rabbit had to spread his wings. We decided to put him in the garden during the day and bring him in at night. I was, I’ll readily admit, concerned. The seagulls were huge and predatory, aggressive and not to be messed with. Fluffy was small, furry, not hugely streetwise and might easily have been seen not a Fluffy the Bunny, but as Sunday lunch. (Well, makes a change from bin liners). But we figured that there were sufficient bushes and places to hide… let him take his chances.
Later that first day, I remember looking out of the window and seeing Sammy The Seagull standing about a foot away from Fluffy. About another foot away, maybe in between them, was Fluffy’s food bowl. Fluffy and Sammy were looking straight at each other. Fluffy was standing on his back legs, his little arms raised high, like a smaller, fluffier version of a cartoon boxing kangaroo. Three months old and feisty beyond his years. In front of him, Sammy was looking frankly perplexed. Sammy was prepared to take on most things – seagulls are arch-survivors and not much phases them – but this was something else.
The next time looked out of the window, I saw Fluffy and Sammy standing either side of Fluffy’s food bowl, both of them taking it in turns to have a bite like a polite old couple. Sammy, not a bird to take fools gladly, had also recognised that Fluffy was a great bunny.
We had Nelson come to stay for a week and that was a blessing. Another old, deaf dog getting in the way and wanting to go out and come in and go out and come in and not eat his food but scoff down the cat food. It was amazing how many of Maxwell’s traits Nels had – the little skip before setting off for a walk – but in the end… he went back home and that was that.
Tomorrow we’re off to the RSPCA. Got to really.
It’s been a year for deaths and I hope this is the end. It started with Fluffy. Fluffy was a great bunny. I’ve not got a great deal of experience with rabbits and I don’t know that much, but one thing I do know is this: Fluffy was a great bunny. I’ll tell you a story about Fluffy that will show you just how great a bunny Fluffy was.
This is the story. The story is this. When we got Fluffy we decided that he was “a house rabbit”. No one asked Fluffy, no one told us; we just decided. We’d got Fluffy for LouLou for Christmas 2005, six weeks old, this little bundle of grey fluff. A lop-eared lionhead. We came up smart arse adult names like Starsky or Stew or, I don’t know, but LouLou had that clarity of childhood. LouLou took one look at him and called him ‘Fluffy’. It was, of course, perfect. Anyway, Fluffy lived in LouLou’s room – or more precisely under her bed. It was an unsatisfactory arrangement for everyone. Fluff hid under the bed, made a mess, poo’d everywhere. Ate all the wires and nearly killed me when I inadvertently touched an exposed end. He quickly became a nuisance, something that we never saw but had to clear up after.
We decided that Fluffy the house rabbit had to spread his wings. We decided to put him in the garden during the day and bring him in at night. I was, I’ll readily admit, concerned. The seagulls were huge and predatory, aggressive and not to be messed with. Fluffy was small, furry, not hugely streetwise and might easily have been seen not a Fluffy the Bunny, but as Sunday lunch. (Well, makes a change from bin liners). But we figured that there were sufficient bushes and places to hide… let him take his chances.
Later that first day, I remember looking out of the window and seeing Sammy The Seagull standing about a foot away from Fluffy. About another foot away, maybe in between them, was Fluffy’s food bowl. Fluffy and Sammy were looking straight at each other. Fluffy was standing on his back legs, his little arms raised high, like a smaller, fluffier version of a cartoon boxing kangaroo. Three months old and feisty beyond his years. In front of him, Sammy was looking frankly perplexed. Sammy was prepared to take on most things – seagulls are arch-survivors and not much phases them – but this was something else.
The next time looked out of the window, I saw Fluffy and Sammy standing either side of Fluffy’s food bowl, both of them taking it in turns to have a bite like a polite old couple. Sammy, not a bird to take fools gladly, had also recognised that Fluffy was a great bunny.
We had Nelson come to stay for a week and that was a blessing. Another old, deaf dog getting in the way and wanting to go out and come in and go out and come in and not eat his food but scoff down the cat food. It was amazing how many of Maxwell’s traits Nels had – the little skip before setting off for a walk – but in the end… he went back home and that was that.
Tomorrow we’re off to the RSPCA. Got to really.
Monday, 18 February 2008
Monday
I think my brain is falling out. I keep making arrangements with people and then.... getting text messages to say "Where were you? I was in your office..." I don't know.
I blame Maxwell. Blimmin dog. Sitting there, taking up so much space in my head, I'm not sure what to do with him. Nelson's over there, sleeping. Tiger's upstairs, sleeping. Rosie is sitting on the railings, looking down the atrium. Princey probably has his head in a vase somewhere and Maxwell's everywhere.
I went trawling the rescue sites before because, well, I think we should get a dog. I like having dogs around and we've got a fantastic place here for dogs. Don't know how long we'll be here but for now? How many people can offer 25 acres? I don't know. People keep saying to me (us) that it's "too soon to get another one". What a very odd thing to say. Too soon to get another one. What's it mean. Another one? Another Maxwell? How could there be another Maxwell? Maxwell was blimmin Maxwell and if we get another dog, he or she will be them.
So anyway, I came across this: "Wendy is a young cross breed who arrived in an appalling state. She is thought to be under a year old and has had a poor start to her young life. Happily, she is now on the mend and is beginning to show some character."
Wendy. It was like stepping back in time 14 years. I don't think I could do that. It would just be too spooky. But she does look like he looked at that age.
I blame Maxwell. Blimmin dog. Sitting there, taking up so much space in my head, I'm not sure what to do with him. Nelson's over there, sleeping. Tiger's upstairs, sleeping. Rosie is sitting on the railings, looking down the atrium. Princey probably has his head in a vase somewhere and Maxwell's everywhere.
I went trawling the rescue sites before because, well, I think we should get a dog. I like having dogs around and we've got a fantastic place here for dogs. Don't know how long we'll be here but for now? How many people can offer 25 acres? I don't know. People keep saying to me (us) that it's "too soon to get another one". What a very odd thing to say. Too soon to get another one. What's it mean. Another one? Another Maxwell? How could there be another Maxwell? Maxwell was blimmin Maxwell and if we get another dog, he or she will be them.
So anyway, I came across this: "Wendy is a young cross breed who arrived in an appalling state. She is thought to be under a year old and has had a poor start to her young life. Happily, she is now on the mend and is beginning to show some character."
Wendy. It was like stepping back in time 14 years. I don't think I could do that. It would just be too spooky. But she does look like he looked at that age.
Saturday, 16 February 2008
Maxwell C Wolf
“Either he grew to be like you or vice versa. I'm not sure which.” There were many messages we received after the news about Maxwell leaked out, but that was the one I liked the best. Maybe because I think it was true.
Maxwell C Wolf died at 2.50pm on Tuesday February 12. I can’t really say that it was a shock because it wasn’t. I can’t really say that it was unexpected because it wasn’t that either. But it was. It’s so difficult. I don’t even know where to begin.
I think it was Woody Allen who said “Only taxes and death are inevitable” but then Gill got a tax rebate for £1,800 and that makes you think. Then, about a week later, I got a tax rebate. £1,400. And that’s when you start to think “Well, maybe”.
Maxwell was a cross breed, but had about 80% German Shepherd knocking around I there – though not, he says pointedly, the sticky up ears – and for him to be alive and kicking at 14 was, in itself, a cheat. The canine equivalent of the taxman giving me and Gill over three grand.
His back legs had largely gone. We were thinking of getting a carpet to cover up the stone tiles because it took him so long to stand up. He was like Bambi on ice, he tried and tried and dragged his legs behind him until they were in position and then… he could go. He’d still drag himself to meet us at the drive as we arrived – though sometimes we had to slow down so as to allow him time to get to us. Sometimes it took him just too long to get to us but we all kinda waited and played the game. It was an important ritual.
I was worried about the coming summer. I had – have – a sneaky feeling that it’s going to be a hot one and I knew that that would be so uncomfortable for the old man. The whole thing was… a concern.
I knew Maxwell was going to die. I’d been building myself up for it. I knew it was going to happen. I’d known for years. I used to talk to him about it. Late at night when everyone else had gone to bed and he’d be lying at the bottom of he stairs I used to lie down next to him and stroke his head and talk to him, sometimes about him dying. We both knew it was going to happen and yet… I am so fucking angry. Why couldn’t he have hung around a bit longer? What difference would it make? Like Topol said, would it spoil some vast eternal plan?
I can’t be sad. Maxwell had the best life he could have had. From Battersea Dogs Home – and God knows where before that – to the vast acreage of Laughton Lodge via West Hampstead, Primrose Hill, Hampstead Heath and Brighton. Whatever way you look at it, it’s not a bad journey. They’re not just nice, comfortable places, they’re happy places. Places Maxwell made happy.
Maxwell C Wolf died at 2.50pm on Tuesday February 12. I can’t really say that it was a shock because it wasn’t. I can’t really say that it was unexpected because it wasn’t that either. But it was. It’s so difficult. I don’t even know where to begin.
I think it was Woody Allen who said “Only taxes and death are inevitable” but then Gill got a tax rebate for £1,800 and that makes you think. Then, about a week later, I got a tax rebate. £1,400. And that’s when you start to think “Well, maybe”.
Maxwell was a cross breed, but had about 80% German Shepherd knocking around I there – though not, he says pointedly, the sticky up ears – and for him to be alive and kicking at 14 was, in itself, a cheat. The canine equivalent of the taxman giving me and Gill over three grand.
His back legs had largely gone. We were thinking of getting a carpet to cover up the stone tiles because it took him so long to stand up. He was like Bambi on ice, he tried and tried and dragged his legs behind him until they were in position and then… he could go. He’d still drag himself to meet us at the drive as we arrived – though sometimes we had to slow down so as to allow him time to get to us. Sometimes it took him just too long to get to us but we all kinda waited and played the game. It was an important ritual.
I was worried about the coming summer. I had – have – a sneaky feeling that it’s going to be a hot one and I knew that that would be so uncomfortable for the old man. The whole thing was… a concern.
I knew Maxwell was going to die. I’d been building myself up for it. I knew it was going to happen. I’d known for years. I used to talk to him about it. Late at night when everyone else had gone to bed and he’d be lying at the bottom of he stairs I used to lie down next to him and stroke his head and talk to him, sometimes about him dying. We both knew it was going to happen and yet… I am so fucking angry. Why couldn’t he have hung around a bit longer? What difference would it make? Like Topol said, would it spoil some vast eternal plan?
I can’t be sad. Maxwell had the best life he could have had. From Battersea Dogs Home – and God knows where before that – to the vast acreage of Laughton Lodge via West Hampstead, Primrose Hill, Hampstead Heath and Brighton. Whatever way you look at it, it’s not a bad journey. They’re not just nice, comfortable places, they’re happy places. Places Maxwell made happy.
Tuesday, 2 October 2007
Fish2
FISH
Once upon a time, if you’d have said to me you’ll go for a ride in a Mercedes-Benz I’d have conjured up a picture of luxury. I’d have been sitting behind the wheel bathed in rich leather and deep pile carpets. There’d be electric everything, wood fascia, the whole deal. And as I stared out of the front window, I’d see the classic Mercedes badge at the end of the bonnet.
The North African beige Mercedes taxi is a different beast entirely. It isn’t really a Mercedes at all. It’s something between a beat-up entry in Wacky Races and a physics-defying entity that laughs in the face of all known mechanical laws.
Until recently I’d never really thought about what the collective noun for cars might be but, standing by the taxi rank by the main square in Marrakesh, it occurred to me that maybe “a skip” would be a good bet. There was a skip of cars, all the same, yet all different. The same in that they were all beige Mercedes, four-door 280D model. Different in that some of them had doors that fitted, some had windows...
After a bit of chat about where exactly it was we were going and how much it was going to cost – the usual – we were ushered into a particularly… personalised model. It wasn’t held together so much by Blu-Tack as belief. And it was easier to believe if your eyes were that same herbal shade of red as our drivers. I can’t say I noticed that before we sat down.
“Which way are you going?” I said as I noticed that we weren’t going the way I thought I recognised.
“Don’t worry, my friend” said our driver, who introduced himself as Asif. “Don’t worry, be happy!”
As if.
I’d be happier if I knew where we were going and if you’re eyes weren’t looking so… relaxed, I thought. But didn’t say.
It was a two lane road. And there were three cars driving alongside down it. And a couple of mopeds. And some bikes with extended families hanging off them.
I think Asif spotted my concern.
“Don’t worry, my friend” he said as took his hands off the road and reached inside his jacket. “Have a cigarette! Don’t worry, be happy!”
I looked outside at the night as the red dust of the Moroccan sky reflected in Asif’s equally red and dusty eyes.
“Cheers Asif” I said, and I smiled to myself as I realised that I was having a cigarette, long after having given them up because they’re bad for your health. “Don’t worry, be happy!”
Once upon a time, if you’d have said to me you’ll go for a ride in a Mercedes-Benz I’d have conjured up a picture of luxury. I’d have been sitting behind the wheel bathed in rich leather and deep pile carpets. There’d be electric everything, wood fascia, the whole deal. And as I stared out of the front window, I’d see the classic Mercedes badge at the end of the bonnet.
The North African beige Mercedes taxi is a different beast entirely. It isn’t really a Mercedes at all. It’s something between a beat-up entry in Wacky Races and a physics-defying entity that laughs in the face of all known mechanical laws.
Until recently I’d never really thought about what the collective noun for cars might be but, standing by the taxi rank by the main square in Marrakesh, it occurred to me that maybe “a skip” would be a good bet. There was a skip of cars, all the same, yet all different. The same in that they were all beige Mercedes, four-door 280D model. Different in that some of them had doors that fitted, some had windows...
After a bit of chat about where exactly it was we were going and how much it was going to cost – the usual – we were ushered into a particularly… personalised model. It wasn’t held together so much by Blu-Tack as belief. And it was easier to believe if your eyes were that same herbal shade of red as our drivers. I can’t say I noticed that before we sat down.
“Which way are you going?” I said as I noticed that we weren’t going the way I thought I recognised.
“Don’t worry, my friend” said our driver, who introduced himself as Asif. “Don’t worry, be happy!”
As if.
I’d be happier if I knew where we were going and if you’re eyes weren’t looking so… relaxed, I thought. But didn’t say.
It was a two lane road. And there were three cars driving alongside down it. And a couple of mopeds. And some bikes with extended families hanging off them.
I think Asif spotted my concern.
“Don’t worry, my friend” he said as took his hands off the road and reached inside his jacket. “Have a cigarette! Don’t worry, be happy!”
I looked outside at the night as the red dust of the Moroccan sky reflected in Asif’s equally red and dusty eyes.
“Cheers Asif” I said, and I smiled to myself as I realised that I was having a cigarette, long after having given them up because they’re bad for your health. “Don’t worry, be happy!”
Friday, 13 April 2007
Ace Mag
On Saturday March 10, the Pacific Life Open at Indian Wells held the usual promise: some lovely tennis, Andy Murray doing really, really well before getting a muscle pull, Andy Roddick trying and sweating and smiling before losing – just – to Nadal, Federer lifting the trophy and losing more liquid in tears than he ever did in sweat during the whole tournament. That was Saturday March 10. On Monday March 12, the Pacific Life Open at Indian Wells had become an unmissable, one of those rare events where anything might happen. What happened on Sunday March 11 was one of those things that a few years back might have vexed Mulder and Scully. On Sunday March 11, this happened: G Canas (Arg) def R Federer (Sui) 7-5, 6-2.
Later that night G Canas (Arg) had a spiritual conversion and is now living in a silent monastery in the foothills of Annapurna. For the rest of us, it was game on. Well, up to a point. Andy Murray did really, really well before getting a muscle pull, Andy Roddick tried and sweated and smiled before losing – just – to Nadal. And Nadal? Nadal found himself in the curious position of being in a final and playing a human being. Duly, he won a tournament for the first time in nine months.
His opponent was Murray’s victor, Novak Djokovic, the 19-year-old Serb and another of the next raft of challengers. The first teenager to reach the final since Agassi in 1990, he was attempting to become the first teen to win it since Boris Becker in 1987. Curiously, Nadal is less than a year older but looks – feels – like he’s a different generation. It didn’t take long.
"When my mother was giving me the milk, I was watching him win Wimbledon" said Novak as Boris presented him with his runners-up trophy. That puts things in a certain context, then.
The real winners were the sponsors of the ad breaks, “Stan James – The Sports Bookmakers” who, courtesy of G Canas (Arg) must have been baking cakes and booking holidays. It was a curious thing, having a bookie sponsor the breaks. The money is still gobsmacking: during the Roddick Ljubicic game, we were told that “this match brings Ivan Ljubicic’s prize money to $6million”. Ivan Ljubicic? No disrespect and he’s a good player and all, but $6million? Back in the day, you’d get bionic limbs for that sort of figure. Inflation, I guess.
Later that night G Canas (Arg) had a spiritual conversion and is now living in a silent monastery in the foothills of Annapurna. For the rest of us, it was game on. Well, up to a point. Andy Murray did really, really well before getting a muscle pull, Andy Roddick tried and sweated and smiled before losing – just – to Nadal. And Nadal? Nadal found himself in the curious position of being in a final and playing a human being. Duly, he won a tournament for the first time in nine months.
His opponent was Murray’s victor, Novak Djokovic, the 19-year-old Serb and another of the next raft of challengers. The first teenager to reach the final since Agassi in 1990, he was attempting to become the first teen to win it since Boris Becker in 1987. Curiously, Nadal is less than a year older but looks – feels – like he’s a different generation. It didn’t take long.
"When my mother was giving me the milk, I was watching him win Wimbledon" said Novak as Boris presented him with his runners-up trophy. That puts things in a certain context, then.
The real winners were the sponsors of the ad breaks, “Stan James – The Sports Bookmakers” who, courtesy of G Canas (Arg) must have been baking cakes and booking holidays. It was a curious thing, having a bookie sponsor the breaks. The money is still gobsmacking: during the Roddick Ljubicic game, we were told that “this match brings Ivan Ljubicic’s prize money to $6million”. Ivan Ljubicic? No disrespect and he’s a good player and all, but $6million? Back in the day, you’d get bionic limbs for that sort of figure. Inflation, I guess.
Saturday, 10 March 2007
Maxwell's Big Chance
CHAPTER ONE:
It all started, naturally, with Maxwell C Wolf. He’d been the first to erode my life of single irresponsibility, the first to dictate that I work for him rather than simply for me, and somehow what started off as a simple bowl of chum had escalated to a Volvo with the contents of a lunchbox everywhere. Man’s best friend. Anyway, a friend came round for a chat . He’s working on a kids TV programme and it features a dog but the dog - Bentley - is a bit of a Joan Crawford, a bit of a prima donna. Won’t come out of his trailer if its too cold. The winalot’s the wrong shape... Method dog nonsense. So the friend told the story and looked at Maxwell and told the story and looked at Maxwell and... “So”, he says, “Can Maxwell act?”
What’s he got to do? He’s got to sit? Chase a ball? Bentley charges £250 a day. Can Maxwell act? Believe me, Maxwell can act. That was a month ago. Now Maxwell C Wolf is halfway through a course of ignatia, a homeopathic remedy designed to counter sadness and loss. He’s happy enough, but there’s something about his behaviour that seems, I don’t know, sad. Maybe it’s projection, but his ears are down, you know.. What happened? The day before shooting was to start Ð and Maxwell’s been up all night, sitting Ð we got a call from the production manager saying that Maxwell couldn’t do the job. Why not?
“He wasn’t in the union”, she said.
What do you mean?
“Sorry, he’s got to be in the union”.
Was Wapping for nothing? It was nonsense. The only concrete grief is insurance. Say the dog plays up and the shoot is held up? Who pays? Realistically, this isn’t a problem. Maxwell has a basic pet insurance and is insured for £100,000. He’s got to be. It’s a third party, fire and theft deal. Basically the union story was a nonsense. Maxwell was stitched up. Nepotism is rife in the media, everyone knows that. A dog-owner eat dog-owner business. Sorry, he’s got to be in the union, said the production manager with a can of chum in her pocket.
Still, let’s not worry about kids programmes. There are toilet rolls out there to sell. Talking to Ann Head was instructive as far as Maxwell’s future was concerned. If a dog has a good temperament, that’s the first and most important thing. If you’re talking to him and he thinks you’re playing, he might want to come to you. If you tell him off, he’ll sit and stay but with his ears down as if he’s done something wrong. A dog who is going to be used in a central role must learn to do at least the three basics before any agent will look at him. A rock solid stay, a fetch and carry and, preferably, a speak on command. If he can’t do those, then his owner is unlikely to be good at training. People say to me aren’t you lucky to find a pretty white cat who’ll put his paw in a can of food, or how did you find a dog who would play the piano?. You have to look at the common denominator. A dog who will speak on command? Or play the piano? We looked at our non-musical mute hound and we looked at sweet lovely Elly and we heard Ann’s words ringing in our ears. It’s the same as with baby modelling. If you’re in it for the money, forget it. That’s the wrong attitude. Now, no disrespect to Maxwell, but this time, we thought we’d do our research. We started with a call to the Norrie Carr Model Agency, a member of the Association of Model Agents, no less. In a cute reversal of roles, we realised that the odds were that we’d end up doing the paying. Even though there’s no signing on fee, to get signed up your child have an assessment £25 signing on fee. £85 for half a page in the models book. Jackie at the Sylvia Young Agency. If a parent thinks of their baby as a commodity, they’re not going to do well in this business. Most people come to us because they’ve got babies and they want something to do. We tend to reject a baby if the parent has the wrong attitude. Obviously more research was needed. We checked around and found the inevitable friend of a friend. A make up artist, Susie made it sound perfect. Well, humane. I used it as a playgroup for my two when they were very small. It's good for little ones to be with other babies. The mums often find it a good opportunity to meet other mums and to talk about their new roles. But I'm going to give up when my girls are old enough to be bothered about whether or not they get the ad. They're two and four now and fine about it. They just see it as a game. They don't often get picked for the ad anyway and I don't think that they see any difference between a shoot and a casting. Both give them their 15 seconds in front of the camera. I have no problem with it. We should have known. But it all seemed so easy. A couple of months ago, a friend came round for a chat. She’s working on an advert and it’s for nappies and they need a new-born baby. They had one but there was SMA powdered milk instead of Cow & Gate in the changing room... So she says, can Elly act? She’s got to lay on her stomach? Elly can act. Believe me. Elly had to lie face down on a sheepskin and, wearing nothing but a skimpy T-shirt, do nothing. Look, the kid’s a prodigy Ð she was sucking her thumb on day one. This was nothing, and at four months she’d have the maturity and the perspective that a new-born just wouldn’t have. So we got to the casting session and there was this room full of Mrs Worthingtons with their tap-dancing, trumpet playing babies and we smiled the smile of the confident. I’d like to thank everyone... Elly, need it be said, was perfect. OK, so she wee’d just as the photographer snapped. It’s natural. No. The reason Elly was rejected was because her bottom was too... It wasn’t fleshy enough. From Twiggy to Jodie Kidd and now they decide that fat is a good thing for a model to be? So what’s the story? We look for very placid babies who are not necessarily the perfect baby to look at. It’s more important that they have the right temperament than the perfect face. They need to look healthy and have a good disposition. We might want to feed the baby when it’s not his feeding time, so the baby has to be flexible enough to do that. We need the baby to be able to go to other people - not just his mum. So the perfect eyes and face shape often has very little to do with it. And what about speaking on command? Or playing the piano? Sorry?. Still. On reflection, it’s good she didn’t get the job. We didn’t want Elly to turn into some Joan Crawford prima donna, some Bentley. And have her bottom staring down from a billboard poster? Modelling’s a nonsense. All that time spent waiting around when she could’ve been praticing her double-handed backhand down the line. There are more parents than babies who get depressed about the failure rate, said Jackie. It’s a natural instinct to be proud of your child and of course you want everybody else to think that your child is gorgeous. If you want a bit of fun, try modelling, but if you’re going to get depressed about it, find something else to do with your baby. If you’ve ever doubted the existance of a righteous God, then ponder this. It’s 10.44pm and Maxwell’s upstairs sleeping and Elly’s watching MTV with her mum. Meanwhile I’ve done my days work and I’m sitting here writing an article about how to get the children to work for you. u all Even though there’s no signing-Elly had to .. Then there was . £85 for half a page. Then there are the professional photographers to pay for Ð You haven’t got a portfolio? And for what? A rate of £30 an hour if successfully selected? was no more encouragingGet away from the agencies, go for the human touch. spect to Maxwell, but this timeand iTThat’s (£112.50 a day) genuine Jackie
It all started, naturally, with Maxwell C Wolf. He’d been the first to erode my life of single irresponsibility, the first to dictate that I work for him rather than simply for me, and somehow what started off as a simple bowl of chum had escalated to a Volvo with the contents of a lunchbox everywhere. Man’s best friend. Anyway, a friend came round for a chat . He’s working on a kids TV programme and it features a dog but the dog - Bentley - is a bit of a Joan Crawford, a bit of a prima donna. Won’t come out of his trailer if its too cold. The winalot’s the wrong shape... Method dog nonsense. So the friend told the story and looked at Maxwell and told the story and looked at Maxwell and... “So”, he says, “Can Maxwell act?”
What’s he got to do? He’s got to sit? Chase a ball? Bentley charges £250 a day. Can Maxwell act? Believe me, Maxwell can act. That was a month ago. Now Maxwell C Wolf is halfway through a course of ignatia, a homeopathic remedy designed to counter sadness and loss. He’s happy enough, but there’s something about his behaviour that seems, I don’t know, sad. Maybe it’s projection, but his ears are down, you know.. What happened? The day before shooting was to start Ð and Maxwell’s been up all night, sitting Ð we got a call from the production manager saying that Maxwell couldn’t do the job. Why not?
“He wasn’t in the union”, she said.
What do you mean?
“Sorry, he’s got to be in the union”.
Was Wapping for nothing? It was nonsense. The only concrete grief is insurance. Say the dog plays up and the shoot is held up? Who pays? Realistically, this isn’t a problem. Maxwell has a basic pet insurance and is insured for £100,000. He’s got to be. It’s a third party, fire and theft deal. Basically the union story was a nonsense. Maxwell was stitched up. Nepotism is rife in the media, everyone knows that. A dog-owner eat dog-owner business. Sorry, he’s got to be in the union, said the production manager with a can of chum in her pocket.
Still, let’s not worry about kids programmes. There are toilet rolls out there to sell. Talking to Ann Head was instructive as far as Maxwell’s future was concerned. If a dog has a good temperament, that’s the first and most important thing. If you’re talking to him and he thinks you’re playing, he might want to come to you. If you tell him off, he’ll sit and stay but with his ears down as if he’s done something wrong. A dog who is going to be used in a central role must learn to do at least the three basics before any agent will look at him. A rock solid stay, a fetch and carry and, preferably, a speak on command. If he can’t do those, then his owner is unlikely to be good at training. People say to me aren’t you lucky to find a pretty white cat who’ll put his paw in a can of food, or how did you find a dog who would play the piano?. You have to look at the common denominator. A dog who will speak on command? Or play the piano? We looked at our non-musical mute hound and we looked at sweet lovely Elly and we heard Ann’s words ringing in our ears. It’s the same as with baby modelling. If you’re in it for the money, forget it. That’s the wrong attitude. Now, no disrespect to Maxwell, but this time, we thought we’d do our research. We started with a call to the Norrie Carr Model Agency, a member of the Association of Model Agents, no less. In a cute reversal of roles, we realised that the odds were that we’d end up doing the paying. Even though there’s no signing on fee, to get signed up your child have an assessment £25 signing on fee. £85 for half a page in the models book. Jackie at the Sylvia Young Agency. If a parent thinks of their baby as a commodity, they’re not going to do well in this business. Most people come to us because they’ve got babies and they want something to do. We tend to reject a baby if the parent has the wrong attitude. Obviously more research was needed. We checked around and found the inevitable friend of a friend. A make up artist, Susie made it sound perfect. Well, humane. I used it as a playgroup for my two when they were very small. It's good for little ones to be with other babies. The mums often find it a good opportunity to meet other mums and to talk about their new roles. But I'm going to give up when my girls are old enough to be bothered about whether or not they get the ad. They're two and four now and fine about it. They just see it as a game. They don't often get picked for the ad anyway and I don't think that they see any difference between a shoot and a casting. Both give them their 15 seconds in front of the camera. I have no problem with it. We should have known. But it all seemed so easy. A couple of months ago, a friend came round for a chat. She’s working on an advert and it’s for nappies and they need a new-born baby. They had one but there was SMA powdered milk instead of Cow & Gate in the changing room... So she says, can Elly act? She’s got to lay on her stomach? Elly can act. Believe me. Elly had to lie face down on a sheepskin and, wearing nothing but a skimpy T-shirt, do nothing. Look, the kid’s a prodigy Ð she was sucking her thumb on day one. This was nothing, and at four months she’d have the maturity and the perspective that a new-born just wouldn’t have. So we got to the casting session and there was this room full of Mrs Worthingtons with their tap-dancing, trumpet playing babies and we smiled the smile of the confident. I’d like to thank everyone... Elly, need it be said, was perfect. OK, so she wee’d just as the photographer snapped. It’s natural. No. The reason Elly was rejected was because her bottom was too... It wasn’t fleshy enough. From Twiggy to Jodie Kidd and now they decide that fat is a good thing for a model to be? So what’s the story? We look for very placid babies who are not necessarily the perfect baby to look at. It’s more important that they have the right temperament than the perfect face. They need to look healthy and have a good disposition. We might want to feed the baby when it’s not his feeding time, so the baby has to be flexible enough to do that. We need the baby to be able to go to other people - not just his mum. So the perfect eyes and face shape often has very little to do with it. And what about speaking on command? Or playing the piano? Sorry?. Still. On reflection, it’s good she didn’t get the job. We didn’t want Elly to turn into some Joan Crawford prima donna, some Bentley. And have her bottom staring down from a billboard poster? Modelling’s a nonsense. All that time spent waiting around when she could’ve been praticing her double-handed backhand down the line. There are more parents than babies who get depressed about the failure rate, said Jackie. It’s a natural instinct to be proud of your child and of course you want everybody else to think that your child is gorgeous. If you want a bit of fun, try modelling, but if you’re going to get depressed about it, find something else to do with your baby. If you’ve ever doubted the existance of a righteous God, then ponder this. It’s 10.44pm and Maxwell’s upstairs sleeping and Elly’s watching MTV with her mum. Meanwhile I’ve done my days work and I’m sitting here writing an article about how to get the children to work for you. u all Even though there’s no signing-Elly had to .. Then there was . £85 for half a page. Then there are the professional photographers to pay for Ð You haven’t got a portfolio? And for what? A rate of £30 an hour if successfully selected? was no more encouragingGet away from the agencies, go for the human touch. spect to Maxwell, but this timeand iTThat’s (£112.50 a day) genuine Jackie
Men's Group
A storm is threatening our very lives today; If I don't get some shelter, man, I'm gonna fade away..."
So that was that. Men's group done and dusted. I made every effort not to know what was going to happen and probably that's just as well. It wasn't what I thought, but I don't know what was. If I'd have given it any thought... Forget it. I didn't. I think it helped that I don't have any issues about the masculinity thing. Though having just said that word I also admit that there's not a lot about that word I understand. Maybe that's my gift, maybe it's my curse. I don't know. I'm not a male in the old sense - in my father's sense - but I'm not not a male in that sense either. I provide the cash. I pay the bills. I take care of things. I think in general we follow the old Jewish tradition - you know, the old joke: The man makes all the big decisions - whether we're going to war, what the interest rates are... - while the woman makes all the small decisions - where we live, where the children go to school, what we're going to eat tonight.
There was a lot of chat about 'the masculine' and there was that word that Matt picked up on - besieged. I'm not sure about any of this. Most of the language that was used was language that, in the greater world, would be described as 'feminine'. It was tender and warm and loving. Even the words that don't necessarily have a female connotation, words like strong and brave and noble... why are these given a gender? Aren't these just traps we fall into? Why must we assign words and feelings to gender. Listen, Graham cried and we metaphorically applauded. Yet crying. Isn't that a girlie thing to do? Surely the only way forward is that we leave al that labelling behind and just consider ourselves as people? I don't mean to discredit the notion of a 'men's group' nor do I intend to because most if not all of the exercises we did were either interesting or valuable, but all this did make me question the validity of our exercise. The agenda is set by the agenda of the people involved. Of course.
Having said all that... what a lovely opportunity to spend some time with a group of men, talking about things that were important to us, listening to each other, caring for what each other says. When was the last time anyone had a conversation where the person speaking gave 100% and the person listening gave 100%? It doesn't happen. But here it happened and that was fantastic. Spending time listening and talking and just being in a completely selfish way. This is my time. It's a fantastic luxury.
Also, it wouldn't have worked if it had been cross-gender. I don't know why - and that's something I'm going to have to think about - but I just know that not only was it easier being all-male, but it made it possible to be honest. Talking of honesty, I was frankly amazed at how quickly everyone got with it. There seemed to be no settling in period, no testing the water. Everyone just seemed to jump in. I was surprised and I think that the idea to fill in that initial questionnaire was a masterstroke. It immediately helped focus the mind, helped concentrate thoughts. Would it have made a difference if we'd have known that no one was ever going to see them? No idea. The other smart set up was getting us to put blindfolds on before the Sweat. That whole thing - the blindfolds, the walk outside holding hands... - was the perfect way to both concentrate your mind and take your mind off what was to happen.
A downside? I felt there was a certain pressure to say things when really there was nothing to say. I'd liked to have had a bit more outside stuff, a bit more fresh air and nature. And - and this is something I've not thought through at all - but what might it have been like to have an exercise that was intensely physical. You know, get us all absolutely shattered physically and then... then we talk. That state of being physically spent, I dont know how you'd do it but it's an interesting state. Wrestling?
Another downside. There was too much of an air of solemnity. It was all - understandably - very serious. I felt discouraged from making gags, from being a smartarse . Probably a good thing.
The initial exercises about our fathers... My feelings about my father came as no surprise really. It's a bitch that he died. 20-odd years on, I still can't believe it. But there's nothing to add here. No new thoughts. I know now that it was a relationship that was supposed to be an adult thing, that if have hung around we'd have been mates - proper mates having a laugh and stuff. It was never meant to be an adult/child thing. By all accounts he had that with Stephen.
It's a strange relief to find that everyone's experiences are so similar. The absent (for whatever reason) father was a fantastically strong image and as a father it made me realise the importance of being there, both physically and emotionally. This was a good realisation because I'd been having problems with my decision to give up work and the strains that was putting on the family. Was it a selfish 'sacrifice'?
The actual sweat was a strange one. In the build up, I was so concerned about the physicality of it all that I didn't give much thought to it. But it was amazing and my first instinct was that impulse that Teletubbies tapped in to so brilliantly. Again, again. The heat I didn't find a problem, though there were times when James was throwing water on the 'grandfathers' when I though "OK OK enough bloody water already". (Thought: why are they called grandfathers? Must remember to ask James). It helped that I stuck my hand outside, just that psychological safety net - there is an outside. I can't see anything but there is an outside. It was a curiously thrilling experience and one I'd like to repeat again soon. I know that the next time I won't be so fearful of it all and that will help my flow. I was pleased that I didn't feel the need to take on another persona. No judgements - if that's what other people want to do, fine. But it's not me. There was a time when I'd have felt pressured to follow suit - "Er, hello. Squatting Donkey here...." But I just went with what I felt. And that felt good. It's very easy to say things like "Be honest" and "Be true to yourself" but it's not so easy to do. It's easy to say that "the energy in the Sweat wouldn't let you be anything other than true to yourself, but - while that's true - it's still bloody hard.
The fire after was fantastic. It was curious. I felt wonderfully post-coital, that afterglow. It was like we'd all just had great sex, were spent and were now sitting around doing the cigarette thing.
I came away thinking that everyone there was a good person, a sweet. But I guess that's what happens at places like this. Will any new friendships bloom? Doubt it. Will any of the taking names down and "We must get together" stuff happen? Doubt it. Will even the names get passed around? We'll see. I'd like to be surprised, but what do you think? None of that means anything really, It's just the way the world works. I'll stay friends with Graham because I am friends with Graham and that's cool too. He surprised me. I was incredibly touched by him showing emotional cracks during the gown exercise. It was brave and real and very human.
I need to get in touch with 'The Warrior'. I don't feel those impulses at all. I should, I think, take up a high pressure sport. I listened to Matt talking about surfing and the other water stuff and it was properly inspiring. I'm sure there's benefit to be gained from that, an energy to tap into. Listen, if nothing else I'll get fitter, but there's every chance a new door might open and that would be to everyone's benefit.
For me, one of the most interesting things was the drum beating exercise. Beating out the rage and the anger. One by one, different men came and went, banging the drum in their own ways and letting out deep primal roars and screams. I looked on as they did and, of all the exercises we'd done, it seemed to me the strangest. When it came to my turn... I was going to pass – after all, that was every man's prerogative – but I wanted to just be in that space, I just wanted to hold that drum. To see how it felt. So I went into the centre of the circle, kneeled on the cushion, held the drum. Nothing. I stroked the drum. Nothing. Tapped it with my fingers. Nothing. It was a strange thing but even though I'd been with these men for the best part of two days and I’d been through all sorts of psyche-stripping exercises with them, I felt a huge rush of peer pressure. Bang and scream. That's what everyone else has done. That's what they’re waiting to hear. That's what you’re supposed to do. When I started I was quite self-conscious. It took a while for me to get out of my head but while there's were times when, in truth, I might have held a part of me back I didn't’t ever respond dishonestly. What’s the point? And apart from anything else, everyone else would have seen through it. I’m not sure you can hide in these situations. Anyway – the point is, that I wasn't’t going to bang the bastard drum now. I wasn't’t going to start being dishonest at this stage of the game. So I was holding this drum, trying to locate the rage and the anger within, thinking of what to do when James said to me "How would express passion?" This took me by complete surprise and, frankly, I didn't know what to say. To say that it came from left field is... accurate. I thought we were banging drums, expressing anger, outing rage. What had that got to do with "How would express passion?" In that classic way that you always think of the smart retort after the event – you know, the classic put-down – I now know I should have just shown James that my passion comes from a hug, a kiss, a smile, a warm embrace. Not banging a drum and screaming. Now – and here's a thought – does that make me a unimaginative, passionless lover? I don't know. Anyway, the smart retort escaped me and I just return to my cushion. There was a muted "Ho" from the assembled menfolk. Did they understand? Did they know what I was thinking? Did they think I was hiding back? Interpret it as an emotionally constipated response? I sat there thinking about all this and – by now I knew the score – knew that we would go round in a circle and explain 'how that all felt'. Should I say? Maybe in retrospect I should have had a bit of a rabbit, but at the time I just felt that I didn't care what people thought. I was secure in my response. Really. I feel really comfortable writing that, knowing that it's not a lie or a cover-up. I think that also maybe I felt that if I wasn’t really careful it might come across as sounding smug – I haven't got any rage. I haven't got any anger. I deal with it before it builds to that.
One final thing. I was incredibly touched that James gave me that picture of "The King". I've no idea whether it was a deliberate act, whether there any thought involved - and if there was, what that thought might have been. I've no idea whether James thought I was the oldest there or the most deserving or the what. Maybe I was the nearest. Maybe they thought I was the most needy. You know, I didn't know then and I don't care now. If it wasn't a deliberate act then I'm going to tick the box that says Nothing Happens By Accident and say that it 'was meant'. There. That's even better for this bastard ego.
So that was that. Men's group done and dusted. I made every effort not to know what was going to happen and probably that's just as well. It wasn't what I thought, but I don't know what was. If I'd have given it any thought... Forget it. I didn't. I think it helped that I don't have any issues about the masculinity thing. Though having just said that word I also admit that there's not a lot about that word I understand. Maybe that's my gift, maybe it's my curse. I don't know. I'm not a male in the old sense - in my father's sense - but I'm not not a male in that sense either. I provide the cash. I pay the bills. I take care of things. I think in general we follow the old Jewish tradition - you know, the old joke: The man makes all the big decisions - whether we're going to war, what the interest rates are... - while the woman makes all the small decisions - where we live, where the children go to school, what we're going to eat tonight.
There was a lot of chat about 'the masculine' and there was that word that Matt picked up on - besieged. I'm not sure about any of this. Most of the language that was used was language that, in the greater world, would be described as 'feminine'. It was tender and warm and loving. Even the words that don't necessarily have a female connotation, words like strong and brave and noble... why are these given a gender? Aren't these just traps we fall into? Why must we assign words and feelings to gender. Listen, Graham cried and we metaphorically applauded. Yet crying. Isn't that a girlie thing to do? Surely the only way forward is that we leave al that labelling behind and just consider ourselves as people? I don't mean to discredit the notion of a 'men's group' nor do I intend to because most if not all of the exercises we did were either interesting or valuable, but all this did make me question the validity of our exercise. The agenda is set by the agenda of the people involved. Of course.
Having said all that... what a lovely opportunity to spend some time with a group of men, talking about things that were important to us, listening to each other, caring for what each other says. When was the last time anyone had a conversation where the person speaking gave 100% and the person listening gave 100%? It doesn't happen. But here it happened and that was fantastic. Spending time listening and talking and just being in a completely selfish way. This is my time. It's a fantastic luxury.
Also, it wouldn't have worked if it had been cross-gender. I don't know why - and that's something I'm going to have to think about - but I just know that not only was it easier being all-male, but it made it possible to be honest. Talking of honesty, I was frankly amazed at how quickly everyone got with it. There seemed to be no settling in period, no testing the water. Everyone just seemed to jump in. I was surprised and I think that the idea to fill in that initial questionnaire was a masterstroke. It immediately helped focus the mind, helped concentrate thoughts. Would it have made a difference if we'd have known that no one was ever going to see them? No idea. The other smart set up was getting us to put blindfolds on before the Sweat. That whole thing - the blindfolds, the walk outside holding hands... - was the perfect way to both concentrate your mind and take your mind off what was to happen.
A downside? I felt there was a certain pressure to say things when really there was nothing to say. I'd liked to have had a bit more outside stuff, a bit more fresh air and nature. And - and this is something I've not thought through at all - but what might it have been like to have an exercise that was intensely physical. You know, get us all absolutely shattered physically and then... then we talk. That state of being physically spent, I dont know how you'd do it but it's an interesting state. Wrestling?
Another downside. There was too much of an air of solemnity. It was all - understandably - very serious. I felt discouraged from making gags, from being a smartarse . Probably a good thing.
The initial exercises about our fathers... My feelings about my father came as no surprise really. It's a bitch that he died. 20-odd years on, I still can't believe it. But there's nothing to add here. No new thoughts. I know now that it was a relationship that was supposed to be an adult thing, that if have hung around we'd have been mates - proper mates having a laugh and stuff. It was never meant to be an adult/child thing. By all accounts he had that with Stephen.
It's a strange relief to find that everyone's experiences are so similar. The absent (for whatever reason) father was a fantastically strong image and as a father it made me realise the importance of being there, both physically and emotionally. This was a good realisation because I'd been having problems with my decision to give up work and the strains that was putting on the family. Was it a selfish 'sacrifice'?
The actual sweat was a strange one. In the build up, I was so concerned about the physicality of it all that I didn't give much thought to it. But it was amazing and my first instinct was that impulse that Teletubbies tapped in to so brilliantly. Again, again. The heat I didn't find a problem, though there were times when James was throwing water on the 'grandfathers' when I though "OK OK enough bloody water already". (Thought: why are they called grandfathers? Must remember to ask James). It helped that I stuck my hand outside, just that psychological safety net - there is an outside. I can't see anything but there is an outside. It was a curiously thrilling experience and one I'd like to repeat again soon. I know that the next time I won't be so fearful of it all and that will help my flow. I was pleased that I didn't feel the need to take on another persona. No judgements - if that's what other people want to do, fine. But it's not me. There was a time when I'd have felt pressured to follow suit - "Er, hello. Squatting Donkey here...." But I just went with what I felt. And that felt good. It's very easy to say things like "Be honest" and "Be true to yourself" but it's not so easy to do. It's easy to say that "the energy in the Sweat wouldn't let you be anything other than true to yourself, but - while that's true - it's still bloody hard.
The fire after was fantastic. It was curious. I felt wonderfully post-coital, that afterglow. It was like we'd all just had great sex, were spent and were now sitting around doing the cigarette thing.
I came away thinking that everyone there was a good person, a sweet. But I guess that's what happens at places like this. Will any new friendships bloom? Doubt it. Will any of the taking names down and "We must get together" stuff happen? Doubt it. Will even the names get passed around? We'll see. I'd like to be surprised, but what do you think? None of that means anything really, It's just the way the world works. I'll stay friends with Graham because I am friends with Graham and that's cool too. He surprised me. I was incredibly touched by him showing emotional cracks during the gown exercise. It was brave and real and very human.
I need to get in touch with 'The Warrior'. I don't feel those impulses at all. I should, I think, take up a high pressure sport. I listened to Matt talking about surfing and the other water stuff and it was properly inspiring. I'm sure there's benefit to be gained from that, an energy to tap into. Listen, if nothing else I'll get fitter, but there's every chance a new door might open and that would be to everyone's benefit.
For me, one of the most interesting things was the drum beating exercise. Beating out the rage and the anger. One by one, different men came and went, banging the drum in their own ways and letting out deep primal roars and screams. I looked on as they did and, of all the exercises we'd done, it seemed to me the strangest. When it came to my turn... I was going to pass – after all, that was every man's prerogative – but I wanted to just be in that space, I just wanted to hold that drum. To see how it felt. So I went into the centre of the circle, kneeled on the cushion, held the drum. Nothing. I stroked the drum. Nothing. Tapped it with my fingers. Nothing. It was a strange thing but even though I'd been with these men for the best part of two days and I’d been through all sorts of psyche-stripping exercises with them, I felt a huge rush of peer pressure. Bang and scream. That's what everyone else has done. That's what they’re waiting to hear. That's what you’re supposed to do. When I started I was quite self-conscious. It took a while for me to get out of my head but while there's were times when, in truth, I might have held a part of me back I didn't’t ever respond dishonestly. What’s the point? And apart from anything else, everyone else would have seen through it. I’m not sure you can hide in these situations. Anyway – the point is, that I wasn't’t going to bang the bastard drum now. I wasn't’t going to start being dishonest at this stage of the game. So I was holding this drum, trying to locate the rage and the anger within, thinking of what to do when James said to me "How would express passion?" This took me by complete surprise and, frankly, I didn't know what to say. To say that it came from left field is... accurate. I thought we were banging drums, expressing anger, outing rage. What had that got to do with "How would express passion?" In that classic way that you always think of the smart retort after the event – you know, the classic put-down – I now know I should have just shown James that my passion comes from a hug, a kiss, a smile, a warm embrace. Not banging a drum and screaming. Now – and here's a thought – does that make me a unimaginative, passionless lover? I don't know. Anyway, the smart retort escaped me and I just return to my cushion. There was a muted "Ho" from the assembled menfolk. Did they understand? Did they know what I was thinking? Did they think I was hiding back? Interpret it as an emotionally constipated response? I sat there thinking about all this and – by now I knew the score – knew that we would go round in a circle and explain 'how that all felt'. Should I say? Maybe in retrospect I should have had a bit of a rabbit, but at the time I just felt that I didn't care what people thought. I was secure in my response. Really. I feel really comfortable writing that, knowing that it's not a lie or a cover-up. I think that also maybe I felt that if I wasn’t really careful it might come across as sounding smug – I haven't got any rage. I haven't got any anger. I deal with it before it builds to that.
One final thing. I was incredibly touched that James gave me that picture of "The King". I've no idea whether it was a deliberate act, whether there any thought involved - and if there was, what that thought might have been. I've no idea whether James thought I was the oldest there or the most deserving or the what. Maybe I was the nearest. Maybe they thought I was the most needy. You know, I didn't know then and I don't care now. If it wasn't a deliberate act then I'm going to tick the box that says Nothing Happens By Accident and say that it 'was meant'. There. That's even better for this bastard ego.
Parkway
I don't mean to bang on about this - and don't worry. I'll soon get back on track and get back to the important things. Talking of which, it's 10.55. The woman on the loudspeakers just announced that we're half an hour from Bristol.
"Our time of arrival will be just after 11.30" she said. Suit your self. Made me laugh. Got to get your humour where you can these days.
We've just reached Tiverton Parkway. What is it with this part of the country and Parkways? There's Bristol Parkway. Now there's Tiverton Parkway. There's no Brighton Parkway. What is it? Is Parkway a derivation of some old Wessex word meaning station? You see? A mind like a razor, a bloody razor. Mid-life crisis, mid-life schmisis. What do these people know?
This is beautiful. There's a vast expanse of water, river estuary or something, down by Exmouth and there all these wading birds flocking around, having a bit of a nibble, a bit of a swim. In the middle, well not right in the middle, but a fair way out, there's a sandbank. Not big, it's just gently jutting out of the water and there's a bloke standing there, fishing. The sun is reflecting off the water and glistens. How perfect. Newton Abbott. Maybe we'll come and live in Newton Abbott. We could write The Juicy Guide To Newton Abbott (sounds like my kind of job) and after lunch when that was finished, we could stand on a sandbank and catch fish. Maybe build a barbecue on the sandbank. Cook the fish. Invite a few sandbills over. Maybe an oyster-catcher if they're around. What's the monthly mortgage repayments on sandbank? Can't be much, can it? Still, it's a bit of a relief not having to write about Busta Rhymes and pretend I know what the story is and talk about the interesting use of samples. The interesting use of samples? I hate the whole sample culture. It's such bollocks. Write your own bastard song instead of stealing snatches of other people's music. If I did that, if I tried to, say, write a book by using 'samples' of other peoples books, I'd get hammered. Sampling? Bloody plagiarism. Bitter? Not at all. No, it's a challenge, this mid-life crisis. And anyway, I was reading that thin children are this season's must-have accessory.
It's a lovely part of the country, down here. If only it wasn't so far. Plymouth. When I used to pay attention to the football results and all those place names came upon the teleprinter, these places and names I'd never heard of and certainly had no idea where they were or anything,I never figured Plymouth to be the sort of place I'd say was nice. Plymouth? What is it? The River Ply? I don't know. Suddenly Plymouth's turned into Coronation Street, all back to backs and terraced roofs. Liskard is the next stop. Maybe that'll be better. Liskard? Is that real? How come there isn't a Liskard Athletic languishing at the bottom of the Third Division? Because I never heard Len Martin say "Leyton Orient 2,Liskard Athletic 0" does that mean its not a legitimate place?
There's a sweet - sweetish - irony going off to lecture on the joys of journalism the week after I got the sac... cutbacked. Once you get past the obvious gag, I can't quite work out whether it's a good thing. After all, there's the old "Those who can, do. Those who can't, teach" line. And I guess that most of the students - well, the sussed ones - will assume that I haven't got a job anyway. I'm teaching therefore I haven't got a job. Fuck it. They're only students. It's a 4.30 class. Odds on, I'll be the only one to turn up.
Day Two of the mid-life crisis and it's going well. I've come up with a few ideas but nothing's stuck: Cranial osteopath was too last century. Counsellor? Too last week.
Here's an idea. I could try and do the journalism thing again but under a pseudonym - how fucking bastard post-modern funny would that be, huh? But... it's too much potential grief. If my new persona (young female, of course) wasn't a roaring success, well that would be double confirmation of the same thing. The writing's just the writing and... But what if she was a roaring success? What if... Well, what would that say about the previous incarnation? No, that's too much to think about.
It happens. Now then, you might not know this but I'm not what you could justifiably call a religious man. Well, being Jewish, i don't suppose I have to be. Chosen, innit. Maybe last time out I was indeed a particularly religious man, maybe a priest or something. Some mad shamanic geezer with a big hat and flowing robes and mad eyes and a strangely devoted young female acolytes hanging on my every word who broke away from the orthodoxy of his church and founded a new radical branch - a new religion! Strangling chickens and hurling fresh blood over my congregation, I don't know. Whatever it was, it was good because, like I say, I came back chosen. Or should that be Chosen?
Like I say, I'm not a religious man when you lose your job and you find that the last two records you've got to write about are the new albums by the Appleton sisters and Mel C, well you've got to wonder whether it isn't Our Lord saying to you "Jedski, it is time to knock it on the head. And while you're there here's a couple of records to make sure you don't look back on it with any fondness".
I think I'm going to give the Appleton sisters album 5 stars. Call it a triumph. How dull would it be if I got all bitter and laid into it, tried to score cheap gags. No, much better to be magnanimous. Maybe that’s what I’ll do.
"Our time of arrival will be just after 11.30" she said. Suit your self. Made me laugh. Got to get your humour where you can these days.
We've just reached Tiverton Parkway. What is it with this part of the country and Parkways? There's Bristol Parkway. Now there's Tiverton Parkway. There's no Brighton Parkway. What is it? Is Parkway a derivation of some old Wessex word meaning station? You see? A mind like a razor, a bloody razor. Mid-life crisis, mid-life schmisis. What do these people know?
This is beautiful. There's a vast expanse of water, river estuary or something, down by Exmouth and there all these wading birds flocking around, having a bit of a nibble, a bit of a swim. In the middle, well not right in the middle, but a fair way out, there's a sandbank. Not big, it's just gently jutting out of the water and there's a bloke standing there, fishing. The sun is reflecting off the water and glistens. How perfect. Newton Abbott. Maybe we'll come and live in Newton Abbott. We could write The Juicy Guide To Newton Abbott (sounds like my kind of job) and after lunch when that was finished, we could stand on a sandbank and catch fish. Maybe build a barbecue on the sandbank. Cook the fish. Invite a few sandbills over. Maybe an oyster-catcher if they're around. What's the monthly mortgage repayments on sandbank? Can't be much, can it? Still, it's a bit of a relief not having to write about Busta Rhymes and pretend I know what the story is and talk about the interesting use of samples. The interesting use of samples? I hate the whole sample culture. It's such bollocks. Write your own bastard song instead of stealing snatches of other people's music. If I did that, if I tried to, say, write a book by using 'samples' of other peoples books, I'd get hammered. Sampling? Bloody plagiarism. Bitter? Not at all. No, it's a challenge, this mid-life crisis. And anyway, I was reading that thin children are this season's must-have accessory.
It's a lovely part of the country, down here. If only it wasn't so far. Plymouth. When I used to pay attention to the football results and all those place names came upon the teleprinter, these places and names I'd never heard of and certainly had no idea where they were or anything,I never figured Plymouth to be the sort of place I'd say was nice. Plymouth? What is it? The River Ply? I don't know. Suddenly Plymouth's turned into Coronation Street, all back to backs and terraced roofs. Liskard is the next stop. Maybe that'll be better. Liskard? Is that real? How come there isn't a Liskard Athletic languishing at the bottom of the Third Division? Because I never heard Len Martin say "Leyton Orient 2,Liskard Athletic 0" does that mean its not a legitimate place?
There's a sweet - sweetish - irony going off to lecture on the joys of journalism the week after I got the sac... cutbacked. Once you get past the obvious gag, I can't quite work out whether it's a good thing. After all, there's the old "Those who can, do. Those who can't, teach" line. And I guess that most of the students - well, the sussed ones - will assume that I haven't got a job anyway. I'm teaching therefore I haven't got a job. Fuck it. They're only students. It's a 4.30 class. Odds on, I'll be the only one to turn up.
Day Two of the mid-life crisis and it's going well. I've come up with a few ideas but nothing's stuck: Cranial osteopath was too last century. Counsellor? Too last week.
Here's an idea. I could try and do the journalism thing again but under a pseudonym - how fucking bastard post-modern funny would that be, huh? But... it's too much potential grief. If my new persona (young female, of course) wasn't a roaring success, well that would be double confirmation of the same thing. The writing's just the writing and... But what if she was a roaring success? What if... Well, what would that say about the previous incarnation? No, that's too much to think about.
It happens. Now then, you might not know this but I'm not what you could justifiably call a religious man. Well, being Jewish, i don't suppose I have to be. Chosen, innit. Maybe last time out I was indeed a particularly religious man, maybe a priest or something. Some mad shamanic geezer with a big hat and flowing robes and mad eyes and a strangely devoted young female acolytes hanging on my every word who broke away from the orthodoxy of his church and founded a new radical branch - a new religion! Strangling chickens and hurling fresh blood over my congregation, I don't know. Whatever it was, it was good because, like I say, I came back chosen. Or should that be Chosen?
Like I say, I'm not a religious man when you lose your job and you find that the last two records you've got to write about are the new albums by the Appleton sisters and Mel C, well you've got to wonder whether it isn't Our Lord saying to you "Jedski, it is time to knock it on the head. And while you're there here's a couple of records to make sure you don't look back on it with any fondness".
I think I'm going to give the Appleton sisters album 5 stars. Call it a triumph. How dull would it be if I got all bitter and laid into it, tried to score cheap gags. No, much better to be magnanimous. Maybe that’s what I’ll do.
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